It is very difficult to forget your ex, and impossible for some people. Your ex may be much happier than you and found a new partner. At some or the other point you should stop thinking about them, stop calling or messaging them. Because it’s not worth the pain anymore. The more you think the more you suffer. Once they are gone, they won’t come back no matter how hard you try. So why to waste your tears? Stop crying for them, you wont get them back by crying. Be strong, life goes on and you have so much more things to do in life. If they left you without any proper reason but you have gained experience. Next time you will be more careful in choosing a partner, a bit more mature in taking serious decisions.
May be you may get a better partner in future, someone who loves you with all their heart and will never leave you. May be he/she wasn’t right for you. Everything happens for a purpose. You will be left with many memories hard to destroy but you will become strong. Try as much as you can and let it go after a certain stage. Because if you get them back by continuous emotional blackmailing, it wont be the same. It will be a forced relationship which wont sustain for a long time. Just let it go.
It may me seem hard for few days, it hurts a lot. But slowly you realize that it was not worth it. Don’t rush into other relationship after your breakup, take some time. Relax, calm down. Know what you want and stay strong. Give yourself some time. Get yourself pampered. Pray to god for a more genuine person. Find a person who will love you the way you are, not trying to change you.
Remember one thing “you are beautiful/good-looking” and nothing wrong can happen with you. Heart-breaks are common, just look around. You will see many lonely and broken people around you. Just remember there is someone made for you and is waiting for you. So just wait for your turn, you will realize why it didn’t work out with anyone else. You were meant to stay together. Then you will know the true meaning of love.
Keep calm and wait!
