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ORGY FOR A WRIST WATCH
Titan 'What's Your Style' commercial

Nice Review. It's a pleasure reading your reviews. Please upload your photo so that we shall have a look at you, pal. Don't be shy. with love, abbiji

Commented on Vivaldi's review

How Much is Too Much.?
Common Sexual Problems

You saw a girl. Liked her figure (what else?). Now fancy her with you. You love your wife very much. Shower her with gifts and sweet words (sincere?). Make love to her. But keep your latest crush’s image in your mind. You feel a lot relieved. After all sex is mental. Just imagine sex with your... Ms. Charming and your thirst will be quenched. With the same measure you can voyeur women taking bath. No body knows what you're doing. And there is no physical interference. Just a private pleasure from a decent distance. Anything wrong? Is it infidelity? Hey, somebody said something is wrong? I thought I heard perversion. What about imagining a relation with one’s sister-in-law? Is it infidelity? NO! NO! With one’s own sister? Just in imagination. Nothing physical. Is it fornication? How can it be? After all, it’s in one’s mental world. Not physical. Nobody is harmed. Well, the issue is whether mental flirtation is infidelity or not. It is. I hope you know the importance of mental involvement. Everything begins in the mind. If one is unfaithful to one’s spouse mentally, one is unfaithful physically as well. It’s pure deception. If you think the chicken in the backyard and we are different, it is our noble responsibility to control our voluptuous mind and to direct it to something that won't besmear it. I'll conclude my long comment with a short anecdote from a sage’s life. The old sage was travelling with his young disciples. On his way, he helped a young woman to cross a river by carrying her on his shoulder. Although he left her on the riverbank, his disciples continued debating on his action. Is it right or wrong for such a spiritual one to carry a young woman on his shoulder? Knowing their heart the old man replied. “I carried her only when I was crossing the river, but you're still carrying her in your mind.” With love, abbiji Read More

Commented on Vivaldi's review

How Much is Too Much.?
Common Sexual Problems

First of all, thank you very much for putting me also in your trust circle. All men don't fancy other women. But some men do. It may be true in your case. It is true in my case. We must understand that men are not the same. Some are voluptuous, some are moderately modest, and some are weak sibli...ngs of the spiritual masters. If I fancy ten thousand other women while I'm with my wife, she is inert to it, as she doesn’t know about it. It doesn’t hurt her. After all, anything is wrong only when someone else know about it, isn’t it? This is our fancy, our secret world, our private pleasure. It doesn’t harm the relationship. Relationship is physical. Social. Legal. Mental. Did I say mental… oh, something is wrong. Counsellors tell us that there is no harm in imagining things. They are here to lift off unwanted burden of sin from our poor hearts. To wipe off taboos put on us by religions. To boost up our personality. To make us perfect human beings. We know that the human being is made like this. Full of weaknesses. Weaknesses of the flesh. So the civilized world must forgive him. Although homosexuality was considered sin and crime a century ago, the attitude is entirely different now. Those poor chaps are born so. So is the case with Kleptomaniacs, rapists, and serial killers. Now we know that we have some ill traits in our genes which we can't control effectively. Compared to these flirting is nothing. So flirt mentally with anyone since nobody knows about it, no body cares about it. It’s not infidelity. It’s purely mental. Just as you watch a movie. cont... Read More

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Twinkle Twinkle little star
Writing Reviews on MouthShut

As I'm quite new on MS, I'm not familiar with many names that you've mentioned in your review. Thanks a lot for introducing them, as I haven't seen them on MS home page though I have often seen your face there. Probably, you're the star of the stars. Nice work. I can understand the tension of ...a star writer though I'm not yet a star writer and have no plan to become one. I stopped publishing my works 18 years ago, as I couldn't overcome this problem. Still I bear its weight and shy away from publishing. Now you can understand why I don't want to be a star writer. Well, the fear that pressurizes you when you're at the top rung is that the fall will be greater if you don't watch your step. However, commitments give birth to better output and much satisfaction. Watch your step. abbiji Read More

Reviewed Writing Reviews on MouthShut

Let You Be the First Reader of Your Reviews

I’ve no intention to belittle or blemish anyone. I felt bitter when I read some reviews on MS. Reason? Bad English. This is not a tip to write the reviews. I don't think such a tip is required, as all of you know how to write good reviews in your own style. Moreover, I'm not the r...Read more

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Reviewed Rating Reviews on MouthShut

How fast do you read?

All of us know how to read. Or else, we won't be here on MS. However, how many of us can read really fast so that we don't have to rate a review very useful without reading it? One day I posted a fairly long review on MS and after five seconds I got a VU rating! Hum…probably he is a very fast re...Read more

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Commented on jrangoon's review

D NEW PEPSI ADVT-SUCKS more than the bubbly
Pepsi 'Oye Bubbly' commercial

Advertisements are the brain children of some bright chaps who know the market. When a company like Pepsi does their ad they will look for the best one in the market. And their aim is to show how sweet it is to drink their product though the fact is bitter. In a country like India who cares about fa...ct. Otherwise, some of big leaders would not have been re-elected at all. It’s always easy to cheat the majority for some time. And that short span is enough to make good dough. Anger is a virtue at the right moment. abbiji. Read More

Commented on akisha's review

Who says looks are not important ?
General Tips on Personal Grooming

It’s another nice review from you, Sonika. A lot of youngsters think that blind imitation of movie stars and aping of the western tourists are fashion. They are always mistaken because they make bad impression. I've seen many youths clad in long Jeans that sweeps the streets while they are w...alking. It is not only non-hygienic but also nauseating. I hope at least some realize the need for neat and modest dress after reading your review. abbiji Read More

Commented on akisha's review

Seven things that a formal education shd. include
Being Successful in School / College Academics

For us formal education means scoring high grades for further study and job. Very few institutions realize the importance of the points that you've discussed in your review. Our educational system still depends more on the memory power of the student than on his/her other mental abilities such as cr...eativity, management, and personality. However, on long run theses are the factors that count more. With regards, abbiji Read More

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My favourite Airline
Air India

Thanks a lot for your Reading, Rating, and Comments. I enjoyed reading them. It’s great encouragement to write better reviews. Be in touch. With love, abbiji.

Reviewed Healthy Weight Loss

Ten Great Tips to Reduce Your Weight

You may weigh just a ton and worry day and night about your growing waistline. Or you may be a smart fellow who wants to shed a few pounds to look smarter. Anyhow, here are ten great tips to reduce your weight. 1) Eat at least three to four meals a day. Always eat a big meal before you go to ...Read more

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SEX, MARRIAGE AND EVERYTHING ELSE
Common Sexual Problems

Despite enlightening, people carry on premarital sex secretly and publicly in all societies at all times. Even in very stern societies where severe punishment is given for premarital sex, it’s a never ending issue. Adultery and fornication are born with us and practised from times immemorial.... Probably in the future with some corrections in our genes we can find an ultimate solution to these problems (Are we the same species then?) Until then this game of light and shadow will continue irrespective of punishment (as imposed by certain societies) and of death (as in the case of HIV infections). However, any attempt to save this ship is appreciable. Abbiji. Read More

Commented on SRNAIR's review

SEX, MARRIAGE AND EVERYTHING ELSE
Common Sexual Problems

It is a valid review and you're the right person to write it since you are a counsellor. You've great experience with people having broken marriages and loose marriages. I agree with you that premarital sex is not the solution to our sex problems. When I suggested that people must marry when they... are mature, it is the traditional way (somewhat) to look at the picture. Many people disagreed with me for two reasons. 1) The youngsters disagreed because they didn't want to get into a commitment at that early stage. 2) The elders thought that such marriages would bring in unwanted problems at an early age, such as financial insecurity, children, and infidelity. Unfortunately, marital wisdom is a rare thing. Only a few are blessed with it. Otherwise, we would not have seen so much discord in this institution. Even with counselling, how many are living a better life is an issue. Among the Christians, especially among the Roman Catholics, premarital counselling and mediation is a must for the bride and the bridegroom. Despite this many marriages are not rose beds but thorn beds. We know very well that sexual craving is not the same for all people. Some are peaceful while some are frustrated. The frustrated ones go for premarital sex because they can't wait. It’s is pointless to blame them because they are born so. At the same time it’s futile to ask them to observe abstinence until they get married. For some women, marriage is a mirage because they are poor and their parents can't raise a dowry for them. Read More

Reviewed Maria Sharapova

Ballet Beauty

Today I want to write about a champion who lost her title. She has been around for some time since 2001. Last year she won the Wimbledon title. This year she lost it to a former champion. Maria Sharapova, the ballerina in the tennis court. When I watched her against Petrova in the Quarter Fin...Read more

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Reviewed Air India

My favourite Airline

In the last twenty years, I might have travelled by at least a dozen of airlines. I experienced the luxury of European airlines and the hospitality of the airlines from the Gulf. But my favourite air line is Our AIR INDIA. Now my emotional bond must have some rational backup. Please read the fol...Read more

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Reviewed Knowing About your Child's Health

The Miracle of a Hopeless Vegetable

I'm writing this not for the majority but for a minority who had the misfortune to have a retard in the family. It’s about a child who is pronounced a retard and a vegetable by eminent physicians but saved miraculously by Vojta therapy. My daughter is eight years old now. When she has been bo...Read more

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The Right Age to Get Married
Common Sexual Problems

I didn't see Prof. Nair’s second comment. I've written mine before you've posted it though I've posted mine a bit later. The fairy tale part is just a fantasy. It’s not my philosophy. From times immemorial to the last century the majority of the people married when they are physica...lly mature. Nothing has gone wrong! Otherwise, we won't be here. I can't see any danger. If something had been wrong, nature would have raised the maturity age itself. Since we sit in front of an array of electronic gadgets doesn't mean that our average IQ has gone up. So far as I know it hasn’t (probably, my ignorance). We have many socio-economical problems. So we delayed our marriages. May be in the future, we’ll realise our folly and seek other methods to meet our socio-economical problems. Conceit can puff you up but can't prop you up. At present in India the lower class doesn’t observe the legal limit. I don't mind if my son or daughter gets married at 14. I stayed in the Gulf for about 15 years. The Arabs start their life very early. Around 14 for the girls and 18 to 20 for the boys. One day one of colleagues surprised me by inviting me to her daughter’s wedding. She was just 31. I hadn’t imagined that she had a grownup daughter. She told me that her daughter was 16. I haven't done this to become famous. God has given me better means to do so. After all fame and fortune doesn't take you to the next millennium though nowadays people do a lot of gimmicks just to get publicity. I just wanted to share an idea and see the response. Thank you. Abbiji. Read More

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The Right Age to Get Married
Common Sexual Problems

cont.. I'll conclude with a fairy tale. God called all living things to him to assign them their life span. He had decided on 40 years to each. Of course, man was not very happy with that verdict. He wanted more. God told him that he couldn't help unless some other creature was ready to give up it...s years. Then came the ox. It told God that since its life was full of hardships, it wanted only 20 years. God gave the remaining years to man. Then dog came. It was also happy with 20 years because, there was no joy in a subservient life. Well, man got the rest. That’s what we have now. Forty years of God-given glory. The next 20 years of hardships when we work for others, like our children. Then come the next 20 years of ingratitude and isolation when we guard our grandchildren. Once again, thank you all for sparing your time on my review (?). With regards, Abbiji. Read More

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The Right Age to Get Married
Common Sexual Problems

Thanks a lot for commenting on what I have written. I'm a bit late to respond to you because I usually switch on my PC in the morning, when I've a hangover of my night dreams. Don't jump into any other conclusion. I'm a teetotaller. I've been married for 21 years. And I'm blessed with a good par...tner. But whenever I look back on my life I always feel that I've lost time, which I can't regain with all my wealth and determination. TIME. That’s the important issue here, my pals. Not sex. We have a very short life. And we live our best time alone, not with our real partners. When I got married, my wife showed me some of her photographs when she was 14 and 18. I had a pang then. I realized what I lost. I could never see her moving and talking in that golden time. It’s a great lost because she was marvel at that time. By the time I married her, time had taken away some of those bonuses. Her frivolous nature and its mirth were quietened by the level headedness time had bestowed on her. The best part of her life was lost in college campuses with people who had a lesser influence on her life than living it with me who is her life partner. She also told me this many times. How good it would have been if she had met me before. I think that the present discord that we witness in marital life is due to late marriages. Young couple will be taken care, advised and sometimes browbeaten by their much experienced adults, which make their life smooth going and happy. And the power of the relationship that is built from our adolescence onward is great. It’s not like the relationship that we start in the middle age. Cont... Read More

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