How do you let go when the person you love can not commit? He can not be blamed for being ambitious or for being outright honest. Love is patient, one option is to consider waiting, but he doesn't even want that. It's really difficult to think of being with someone else when the one you love is always in your mind. You feel he is the best, maybe I won't find better. And people caring for you would be like" forget him, move on, abhi aisa lag raha hai baadme you won't even realise it!" You also have your parents wishing you get married.
At the crossroad! Now what to do! I love him, he doesn't want me to wait, my parents want me to get married, who should I choose? I don't mind not getting married but my parents surely would. Its the society that always comes into the picture. Mom, dad I would choose a guy with a better resume for you. I'll make the sacrifice. I would marry someone else, chalega. but maybe I won't be that happy as I was with him. It is even unfair to the other guy. He too deserves someone who loves him not someone who is in love with someone else. Sacrificing yourself for your parents. This comes from the heart!
From another viewpoint, you'd think dammit! I should move on, give love a second chance, choose to go for an arranged marriage. There are always other things on your checklist which you can fulfill with this stranger. For example he lives where you've always wanted to go, maybe a luxurious lifestyle, you already know him and he loves you. Eventually love will find you. "Let's grow old together" feels good!
The unconventional approach is to not think of marriage. Live life your way. Find happiness in yourself. Concentrate on your career. Jab personal life ki aisi taisi hone lage to samjho career aage jaanewala hai heard this in a movie. Adopt a kid. Give the kid a better future and you'll have someone to come home to.
To choose between your mind and your heart is always a difficult choice. Approach can make a difference!
