When I was in school, I heard of a student commiting suicide due to some family reasons, that incident was very shocking for everyone. For weeks people spoke about that case and about the boys family who was inconsolable after their son's extreme step.
But unfortunately in today's time reading and listening about suicides is very common. Almost everyday you can read that someone took his or her life due to family matter, financial issue, anger or some other problem. Now the alarming fact is that youngsters suicide rates are getting higher. We all must have heard or read about teenagres or adolsencts taking extreme step and killing themselves. Reason can be anything family, unstable relationship, finance, study, peer pressure etc. But the reality is that, we all must accept this life is a bag of good and bad, we do get happiness and comfort in our lives. But life can come with many ups and downs filled with challenges. Taking you life is not the solution, but fighting with the difficulty will definitely take you out from the hard time.
If your love relation is not going smooth, you got failed in studies, you are facing some money matters or some personal issue; there are many ways to tackle these matters. But we get this precious life only one time and one must behave like a warrior. Depression and stress is one of the main reason why a person thinks about killing him or herself. There can be ways of resolve your problems but if you are always stressed about the same and depressed eventually suicidal thoughts will surround you. Few weeks back heard a young boy hanged himself as he could not success in exams, one teenager girl killed herself as her boyfriend was disloyal. In both the cases these both adolescents thought death is the only solution. But in reality they totally forgot about this precious life, they forgot about their loving parents. How would their loved ones will survive and their untimely death will haunt them forever.
Talking to someone very close and sharing your problem can bring solutions. When you are in dire stress and you have negative thoughts in mind, speaking to someone about it would help. It can be your parents, sibling, friends, neighbour or some old mate but if you can open your mind and share your thoughts that can help immensely. We all get sad and in negative mood and in one or other way stressed due to some matter but that should not block our mind. One must learn how to cope with negativity as then only you can find solutions of your problems.
Not all but most of the youngsters lack patience and they get depressed easily with tiny things. If you are not able to bring good result this time try hard and show your best in other term but by taking your life you choose to be a coward. There are many great inspirational incidents where people have come out from terrifying circumstances and won, they conquered negativity and achieved success.
Also I have read few incidents of commiting suicide while going online so everyone can see. What kind of mentality is this instead of fighting with your problems you are taking your precious life and showing this all online. What you are telling to your loved ones to the world you are a hero or do you think you are setting a great example? There can be solution of problems, facing the challenges is always a better choice rather than running. Do think positive, share your problems and thoughts with your near ones steps taken in anger and discomfort can be dopey.
Afterall tough times never last but tough people do.
