When I was in the process of growing, step by step I was introduced to several things I am surrounded by. I asked about the stars, the moon and later about God. There were no bounds to my curiosity when I came to know what death is all about. My parents, siblings explained to me the philosophy of life in their own way.
I kept growing and so did my doubts on nature, biology, philosophy. When I joined school, kid who asked the most intelligent question was considered the smartest of the lot & silly questions and doubts were laughed at.
Every individual goes through this experience in life. As long as there is life there will be questions. Even today the first thing we ask after saying a hello is how are you? And the conversation continues.
Whenever I meet my relatives after a normal hi and hello as always they ask, how are you… but the inherent curiosity of questioning doesn’t stop here. There are two common questions I am asked.
First one What are you doing these days?
and the next one When are you getting married? Sometimes I am asked both. People who ask these questions know the answers well. They know I am on job hunt.. And when & who to marry is my choice.
So when I am asked
What are you doing these days? I tell them 'I am enjoying life'
When are you getting married? 'Getting married? Can’t you see me happy?'
And u can guess their expression LoL…
Always remember when you are aware of what is going on in a person’s life don’t embarrass them by asking questions. When there is spring in their life you will be informed.
So till then eat center fresh and give Zubaan pe Lagaam…!
