What ever u do to keep one happy, departure is always sad. In fact more we take care, more that person is going to be sad!
Departure would be happy for a person living in great difficulty like a person living in some sickness or for a criminal who is in jail.
We should change our outlook on death. Death is actually a birthday! When we were born, we actually died in our mother's womb! We were there for 9 months and in those 9 months we would have made many friends there. Finally our day of departure comes and we leave sad and making our friends sad. We actually are born crying! The new environment outside the mother's womb is a shock to us! Till the actual day arrives we have no idea what that world we are going to live for the next 60-70 years is going to be.
Similarly when we leave the world, we die here. But that is our birth day in the next world. We and our children who are sad with us have no idea what that world would be like.
To leave our mother's womb a period is kept. That is 9 months. Within that 9 months we have to grow in our life and get ready for our departure from our mother's womb.
Similarly to leave this world, a time period is given to us. That is our life time of 60 to 70 years. Within those years we have to prepare ourselves for our departure.
If we leave this world unprepared, our end would be sad.
Live a God fearing life not bending like a rubber just to survive in this evil world. Live a life like Harishchandra and our end would glorious. God will make our end like that. But if we like like a spineless serpent cunning cheating others just to earn money to make a house and to get our children married, then our end would be sad. Very sad.
