!~~~ chhota sa sajan nanhi si dulhan ~~~!. Review on Vivaah

Chota sa sajan nanhi si dulhan doli sazi hui dwar khadi hai

Doli sazi hui dwar khadi hai..

Jiska byah rachaya jaye beti kaha abhi itni badi hai

Beti kaha abhi itni badi hai..

Aj hi le jayega vida kar.. aj hi le jayega vida kar

Dulhe ne ye zid pakdi hai

Beti puche babul se are bhejne ki kya jaldi padi hai

Beti puche babul se are bhejne ki kya jaldi padi hai

Kabhi kabhi sochta hun kitna anokha hota hai betiyo ka sansar. Jaha janamti hai palti hai badhti hai wahi se jade sametkar kahi aur panapne ko chali jati hain. Unka apna ghar paraya ho jata hai aur wo paraye ghar ki malkine ban jati hain. Nanhi nanhi kaliyan dekhte hi dekhte ek din jagat jananiya ban jati hain.

Caution Warning: Salam Namaste viewers (those who like salam namaste), please don’t waste your time by either watching this movie or by reading this review.

Values, tradition, love, affection, family, society, humor, pain, respect, worship, if you really admire the true meaning of these words, this movie is a must watch for you. In India a family is not just a group of people living together. It’s a mirror of affection, bondage love, sense of values, and feeling of respect, house of worship. The combination of all these, makes a family in India. In same manner, marriage is not just an agreement of spending your life together. It’s meeting of two souls with the feeling of love, respect, sacrifice and worship. It’s a meeting of two families with their own respect and dignity. Perhaps few people have forgotten this truth and this movie is a nice awakening call for them.

Theme:It’s a movie which conveys the deep meaning of love and true sense of values and tradition. It shows the excitement, the fear, the temptation of a person when s/he first time meets his/her soul mate. The feeling of that first meeting is just like a godly dream. It shows the power of love, the power of worship. It shows the respect for tradition, the respect for values. It shows the love of a girl and passion of a man. It shows the immense power of a girl’s character and a man’s aphorism. It Sanatana Dharma, it is said that the supreme power and the greatest asset of a girl is her charitra (character) and the supreme power and the greatest asset of a man is his vachan (aphorism). It’s up to you how you keep your supreme power and greatest asset with you.

Critics: Well hyped smart generation will definitely not like this movie because they really have no respect or understanding for any relationship. It’s true for them because they already go through so many relationships (affairs, which they don’t like to call) in their life. They feel proud in trying everything by own and not following any lesson given by our parents of other greats people. Perhaps they have forgotten that if their parents would have not helped them to stand up and walk then they would have never known how to walk. I guess this smartness and proud feeling for being a rebellion should have come that time only. I still believe, if a child can’t take help of his parent while walking first time s/he will never learn to walk. Similar pattern is applicable while you are about to take decision for your second life (marriage). If you are not taking blessing of your parent, your family, your society then surely you can’t succeed in your second life.

Few people say this movie is too emotional. I would perhaps ask them; tell me about a single person who was never emotional in his/her life. As a normal human being, emotion is part of our life and we just try to run away from this. We all know that it’s their within us then why this fear to accept this? Always remember if you will try to run away from your emotions it will make your more emotional.

Salam Namaste viewers will not like this movie and I have already said this. This part of our society has a different mindset. They are basically Indians but trying to be American, French, German or Australian or God only knows what. They are basically very confused people. They live in India but they will always criticize our culture, our tradition and our values. In this manner they want to show that they are smart and intelligent. This entire traditional thing is an absurd thing for them, too silly or so orthodox in their language. I wonder what kind of future they want to give to their children.

Let’s not discuss much about these critics. Critics will always be there but these few people will never be able to change our tradition and our great cultural heritage. Generations will come and generations will go but the basic principal of love, affection, respect and worship will remain same. Thousand years ago Mahabharata was written and there was also love, affection, respect and worship. Same time few people were also there, who were not ready to accept these all and we all know what happened with them. And remember Mahabharata is not just a TV serial for us. It’s a holy book where the human behaviors have been written which is applicable for everybody regardless of time and situation. Aaj ki duniya me bhi we have Arjuna and Karna, Duryodhan and Bhima, Sakuni and Bhismapitamah. It’s up to us, what do we want to be?

Love: If you love truly and deeply anyone and you are ready to sacrifice anything for your love, you are treated as a fool. In this movie the same feeling of sacrificial love is shown which is not acceptable to few people. They say it can’t happen in real life. I guess if they think like this they don’t understand the love it self. It has a passion which gives you immense strength and tremendous courage to do anything.

My Views: I would just say try to feel this heavenly love and do believe in our tradition, our parents. Try to respect our relationships and just be honest to them. The secret of happiness lies within all these little activities of our life and the happiness keeps on growing when we are with our loved ones.

You can’t think of your happiness when the blessings of your parents are not with you. You can’t think of your happiness when somewhere somebody is weeping by your acts. You can’t think of your happiness when you think about just you as an individual.

Everybody can’t dare to make a movie like this after seeing the mindset of today’s public. If somebody is doing so, it’s our duty to encourage such attempt and make him feel that the respect for your values is still alive. We still believe in love and we still admire our family values.

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