*'We look before & after,
And pine for what is not;
Our sincerest laughter
With some pain is fraught;
Out sweetest songs are those
That tell of saddest thought.'*
Sadness is beautiful if taken in a positive way. It's only the sad times that give u a chance to introspect. It helps u to know urself better. When u r sad, u try to seek the reason for the same. And the reason for our sadness is always a third person. It's very rare that we would hold ourselves responsible for our pains.
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'He/She always gets on my nerves.'
'He/She is too egoistic.'
'He/She takes me for granted always.'
'My life is in the pits since I met him/her.'
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When was the last time u murmured the above sentences? Introspect. U'll get an answer. No doubt, all of u do identify with the above lines.! Complain-complain all the time. Thats how we react to all our agonies. WE BLAME OTHERS. We have a tendency to blame others for our agonies & miseries. Only with the help of some introspection can we realize that holding resentments saps our energy.
Being non-judgmental is the panacea of all our agonies & miseries.
I believe, 'Tragic Songs' or better still'Sentimental Songs' are the most soothing of all the music genres. So hereby, let me list a few of those songs, which touched my heart when I heard them for the first time.
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'Soft & Sentimental Ballads'
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Wo Meri Neend from Hum Hai Rahi Pyar Ke
ye meri bhool thi jo maine tujhe pyar kiya
na milne waali mohobbat ka intzaar kiya
ye kya rang laayi hai meri wafa
mili hai mujhe kisliye ye saza
teri chahat ki pyaas thi mujhko
tujhko paane ki thi umeed mujhe
wo meri pyaas. wo ummeed. mujhe lauta do
Ae Ajnabi from Dil Se
tu to.nahi.hai lekin.teri muskurahte hai
chehra.kahin.nahi hai par.teri aahatein hai
tu hai.kahan.kahan hai
tera nishaan.kahan hai
mera jahaan.kahan hai
mein adhoora.tu adhoori.jee rahi hai
Ghar Aaja Pardesi from DDLJ
is gaanv ki anpadh mitti padh nahin sakti teri chitthi
ye mitti tu aakar choome to is dharti ka dil jhoome
maane tere hain kuchh sapne, par hum to hain tere apne
bhoolne vaale humko teri yaad sataaye re
ghar aaja pardesi tera des bulaaye re
Mere Dushman Mere Dost from Border
aa khaayein kasam, ab jung nahin hone paaye
aur us din ka rasta dekhein
jab khil uththay, tera bhi chaman
jab khil uththay, mera bhi chaman
tera bhi watan mera bhi watan
mere dushman mere bhai.mere humsaaye
hoho.
Chaha Hai Tujhko from Mann
chaaha hai tujhko chaahongi hardum
marke bhi dil se ye pyar na hoga kam
tu saamne hai mere, phir kyu ye doori hai
tujhe kaise batau mein. hai. kya majboori hai
Na Jaane Kyu from Choti Si Baat
wohi hai dagar, wohi hai safar
hai nahi. saath mere magar. ab mera humsafar
idhar udhaar dhoonde nazar
wohi hai dagar
kahan gayi shaame. madhbhari
wo mere. mere wo din gaye kidhar
Meri Neend Chura Ke from Kuch Dil Ne Kaha
humko laga kyu tum ho apne
toota hai dil aur toote hai sapne
jitne diye hai mohobbat mein hum
ab umr bhar bas tadpenge hum
aise khwab dikha ke, aisii aag laga ke
tumko mila kya.dil dhadka ke.phir dil ko tadpa ke
Gori Teri Aankhein by Lucky Ali
dil mein teri yaad basi, tu samjhega nahi
jo hai mere paas hai tera, mera kuch nahi
Zara Zara from Rehna Hai Tere Dil Mein
tadpaaye mujhe teri sabhi baatein
ek baar ae deewana. jhoota hi sahi. pyar to kar
main bhooli nahi hansi mulakatein
bechain karke mujhko, mujhse yun na pher nazar
roothega. na mujhse. mere saathiya ye waada kar
tere bina. mushkil hai. jeena mera mere dilbar
Noorie.(The remix version)
door nahi main, tujhse saathi
main to sada se teri
ek nazar jab tujhko dekhu, jaage kismat meri
aaja se. aaja re o mere dilbar aaja
dil ki pyaas bujhaaja re
Kya Hua Tera Waada from Hum Kisi Se Kam Nahi
yaad hai mujhko, tune kaha tha
tumse nahi roothenge kabhi
dil ki tarah se aaj mile hai kaise bhala chootenge kabhi
teri baahon mein beeti har shaam
bewafa ye bhi kya yaad nahi
Saare Sapne Kahin Kho Gaye by Alka Yagnik
tumne humse kahi thi jo baatein
unko dohraati hai gam ki raatein
tumse milne ke din to gaye
hai hum kya se kya ho gaye
Chitthi Na Koi Sandesh from Dushman
ab yaadon ke kaante, is dil mein chubhte hai
na dard theharta hai, na aansoo rukte hai
Tum Bin Jeeya Jaye Kaise from Tum Bin
tum bin jiya jaaye kaise
kaise jiya jaaye. tum bin
sadiyon se lambi hai raatein
sadiyon se lambe hue din
aa jaao laut ke tum
ye dil keh raha hai
Dhua Dhua by Vikas Bhalla
jaane kya hua, door hum ho gaye
aaj phir mile, aur phir kho gaye
na koi darmiyaan hai
to phir kyu
mein yahan to wahan hai
Tere Dar Par Sanam from Phir Teri Kahani Yaad Aayi
bin tere koi aas bhi na rahi
itne tarse ki pyaas bhi na rahi
ladkhadaye kadam, chale aaye
chale aaye. chale aaye
Lag Ja Gale Se by Lata Mangeshkar
humko mili hai aaj ye ghadiya naseeb se
jee bhar ke dekh lijiye humko kareeb se
phir aapke naseeb mein ye baat ho na ho
shaayad phir is janam mein
mulaakat ho na ho
Kitni Akeli by Lata Mangeshkar
kash wo mere banke. paas yun kabhi aate
khulte dwaar baahon ke. tann bhi aise jal jaate
pyar ke bina. hai ye mann mera. jaise sooni haweli
Tujhse Naaraz from Maasom
jeene ke liye. socha hi nahi. dard sambhalne honge
muskuraaye to. muskurane ke liye. karz utaarne honge
muskurayun kabhi. to lagta hai. jaise
honto pe. karz rakha hai
Kya Ho Gaya Rama Re from Kaante
tera kusoor tha ya mera kusoor tha
tera guroor tha ya mera guroor tha
rabba main itna bura nahi hota
tu agar bewafaa nahi hota
itna bata mujhe, kya mila tujhe
gam ke ye kaante. meri raahon mein beecha ke
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These are the songs that made me cry sometime in my life & now as I listen to them, nothing but sweet-&-sour memories fills up my heart. These are the songs that helped me to concede, 'Sadness is Beautiful.'
Don't Worry & Enjoy Sadness.!
Now wipe off ur tears & Comment on it.!
