Great to know you’re car hunting. Whats special is that this is your first car. So, you need to be ultra careful with your car choice.
Good to know you have fixed on the Eritga. Now, between the petrol and diesel options - it looks like you drive close to 1500 Kms in a month ( 1200 km commute + 300 Km trip) . Given that, it looks the diesel is going to be the better choice.
But here’s one other thing you need to think about - ownership period.
If you are looking to own the Ertiga for 5/+ years, a diesel would be fine. If we do some basic math using difference in price of the petrol and diesel variant & difference in price of fuel and fuel economy, you’d notice that you might break0eve ( or start seeing the benefit of a diesel) sometime just before the 4th year of ownership.