Page three celebs , highly socialized women and men ,most ethical class of society , politicians , actors , directors , industrialists , professionalists, businessmen , trend setters , country runners , (bade bade mahal , badi badi garian , bara bara sindhoor , bade bade baalbachay)bade log , bade log,.......... it fascinates i'sn it ?what do you think ?....this fame , hi fi living standards ,its a magic ,media bring it forth,it really captures naa!.
imagine todays women ,with a noticeable reduction in outfits (things hardly be classified as dresses, hardly fullfills the purposes of dress,already scissored that merely and formally cover the objectable areas.......imagine.....rich babes riding on the dadi's rules royce,attending parties , dancing with the man older than his dad, and her mom conducting and attending seminaars on fitness and health,talk a lot about ethics involve in the most unethical deeds and actions and sometimes serious crimes.
this class claims to be creative , ...............''being creative is not about being oppertunistic ! its about availing that oppertunity fitting all four corners ,if not so , it comes under the heading of fraud.''there is no precise definition of fraud exists, its approach is contingent , one who use this term defines his /her own ways, to me it is depreviation by deciet, since fairness and sincerity I will say is something reasonably accurate and free from distortion , now one can judge , if they still list themselves amongst reasonables,and consider that, what they are exhibiting is not questionable, than I have no appology to say , they are decieved , they are completely mistaking,......''through them india is mislead not translated.''
the war starts when every one tries or pretends to be dominating, and runs for integarity,following thier unknown destinations they lost in the crowd , they decompose thier personalities , destroy thier self image,(then y they forget that the person is treasted wrt his/her self image) they blindly following the western cultures and GOD help them, still they claim that the are bringing indian culture forth.
''india is not where women belive in premarrital sex,it is not a part of indian culture, indian cultures constitutes the original faiths and beliefs, which give the behaviour , artefacts , rituals , thier special meaning and significance,benath value and belief lie assumptions , these influence the indivisual,create a shared style of operating lives, and also the potentials for understandings and conflicts between different cultural groups .''
''similarly one can't completely blaim them , of course the people see what they want to see ,whatever the necessary or relevant in the situation in which they find themselves, because attentions generally tends to be drawn towards loud , bright , vibrating , and pealing and repeating stimuli ,the facts which matches our personality , needs interests, expectations.''
''similarly people avoid seeing things that they dont want to see, things that threatening to thier security of self image , things that too painfull for them , things that attributes towards reality, things that make them denying of what they dream what they belive , things that make them hate themselves.''
people do not respond to the world as it really is , but they percieve it to be, if people act in a way that seems illogical or contrary to one it is probably because they simply do not see things in the same way, one do ,(even I abhorred premarrital sex , shameless outfits and claiming media is responsible, but it could be a manner to live to someone) , consider you might be interpreting the situation or simply interpreting it differently from the others .
at the time when media have the power to influence people's opinions responsibilty remains its biggest challenge what started on a sharp healthy note lost its touch due topeoples inability and abilities to come to term with its own influence.
nasiruddin shah in one of his interview said,
''if indian film indutry is going to produce 2 films like murder every year , im afraid , it is causing 2lakh of younger generation to be deviate , ruening thierlives.''
and what shaban azmi said maid me shiver,
''self respect is the only factor which makes indian women different from of western women if she lost it , india will lost it image , its reason of existance.
some women I have subjected are pooja bedi, bipasha basu, malika sharavat , antra maali and many more.
this rvu cannot be judged into the limitations of usefull and not usefull, similarly I will not examine my accessability through maximum no. of visitors or comments.....but ofcurse I will think I have done it if
''a single head shakes saying .......yes its true''.
