What does that mean? The Eyes of others means what we think other people see about us? That includes how we dress, how we eat, live and jive. That means are we afraid to do things which other people don’t like to see? Or is this an impetuousness that makes us always live upto one or the other persons expectations? Not sure!!!
Their thoughts our cages,does this mean that our capability is restricted to what other think we are capable of? Did we always think like this or due to frequent failures and insults of trying things we wanted has made us think so?
Now if these are right,then how do we break these shackles? Or how do we realize that we are in this state?
To realize: Listing out stuff we always wanted to do or become or achieve right from the time we thought of these things, may be its from our childhood or a thought from today’s breakfast table. So now we can see it’s a very huge list. And most of them are pending. And now we actually think that it’s not possible, exactly there is the moment where one has to realize is this inability arising from me? Or is this what my spouse, parents, kids, friends and people around me think?
To change this state: I am working on it suggestions are welcomed.
