Hi all,
Been a while since I visited MS. But feels great to be back.
All these days there is something that was constantly bugging me and that's why I thought that this is the place to get answers and clarifications. Don't you think SO...........
I am a guy with a very open mind. I love my life and my to be wife(herein called wife for easy typing). But I also love my pets, my bike, my sketches, my friends, my tattoos and a lot of other things........ I don't find the fact that anyone can love all this and also love his wife or her husband difficult to accept. I give equal amount to all this in a really heavy work schedule.......
I want to know just one thing....... If one is giving equal time to all these things does it in any way mean that he is ignoring his wife or rather should I say neglecting his wife....... I have also noticed one common fact in a lot of my friends' families. Every man/woman can love their pets, their parents, their siblings, their work and anything else but there is one that they cannot. That is a human being of the opposite sex... man - woman and woman - man if they are not siblings or parents or they are not supposedly called Moo Bole Bhai Behen.... Why is that so.....
Please clear this out for me, is it in any way wrong if you wholeheartedly say that you love your friend.... I love my friends and when I say that I love them and when I say I love my wife I have two completely different emotions...... Why doesn't everyone feel the same way?????????? Why do we feel that if a a husband is telling that he loves his friend who happens to be a girl as a friend and nothing else, then it cannot be..... Is it so unbelievable that a man and woman can love each other without the need for sexual advancements.... Is it so obvious that if a man and woman are close to each other it should mean that they are sleeping with each other...... If a girl and boy hold hands and walk or are together whenever they get a chance means that they will marry each other or make love..... This is a concept that intrigues me in us....... Correct me if I am wrong but this is what I think....
<<<ANYONE CAN BE FRIENDS IN A CLEAN AND HOLY WAY IF THEY FEEL THAT THEY SHOULD BE...AND THEY NECESSARILY DON'T HAVE TO SLEEP WITH EACH OTHER TO HAVE A PHYSICAL BOND>>>
