A common word used very frequently in this current century is “Friend “
We generally say or introduce our school buddy or college pal or co works as friends to our know circle… what it really means… as my thought goes its this
We have many relationships with us mom, dad, uncle, aunty etc., which are not selected by us, but as a friend is concerned its a relation which we select out of religion, color and gender, so it’s the most important thing we need be very careful about…since it might change rest of our life…
A friend is a one who does any thing for us in any time, understand us in our painful instance and most of all listen to us when we verbalize… and we feel much comfortable when we are with him/her, in broad I can say he or she is the one we can Trust more than any thing in this world. Friends will always help you out when you go with your problems to them… but if they meet you in person you don’t have to say what you want they will know it by their heart… that’s friend ship. But most of all we shouldn’t forget to be his or her friend too… since they are also humans who are in search of a good heart and a shoulder to rest their pains.
Who can be my friend? As I said before he/she is the one whom we can share any thing with. It can be our dad mom or any unknown person too. But most important thing is he/she should be truest worthy for you. Some friend stays short some for long and some till the end. But for sure every one has a friend in there life which they have chosen and not the god!
There are lots of choices for us to select our friends but choosing a correct one is not an easy thing and those who have made it will become crazy personalities. Now it’s good you got one good friend? How long he/she sticks to you and be your friend?
Crazy question rite but still its valid continue reading
What should we expect from a friend? As far as my deliberation goes the word expectation should not be there within friendship, you thing that he/ she is your friend and he/she is worth being your friend then don’t hesitate and be your best for them and at the same time don’t be crazy and do crazy thing for them and lose your life. Since most of time don’t know the value of friends ship. Who knows may be not them but some one else become your friend for your unexpected heart and be on your side… ( ya some time we don’t notice them )
You know what there are few types of people we can categories, people who don’t believe in friendship (may be because they never got one good friend) people who use friendship (don’t get shock there are few people who use the word friendship for getting their things done) people who segregate friendship (Like best friends, close friends, just friend) and much more but my thoughts over here is not to classify. Leave it since its left to the individual to pick there life…
But one most important thing is friendship can live to tell the tale only if the truest and love between the two is true…
Cheers & Yours
Appu
