This. Might come as a surprise. My baby was a day old and was in. NICU. My husband is a doctor but not in that hospital. I was in another hospital. When I was asked to visit the baby I was very weak due to surgery but when I was sitting n waiting for my turn to see the baby the receptionist who was a male behaved very rudely and asked
me to keep standing. Already tensed and in pain I kept standing, it was after half n hour when a staff nurse realised that I was in pain and then my husband started havinvg a heated conversation with that guy. But what about other non medicos like me. Are we not humans?