Dec 18, 2016 05:00 PM
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Hi, I am a Indian national working as a Researcher at Australia. I am above average looks, 5ft and 8 inches tall with 4 years of Research Experience. I am in my late 20s and after working as a single for 4 years overseas, I started becoming serious for marriage to settle down. Also, life overseas can be depressing to live as a single matured Researcher. Upon the recommendation of my sister, I made my profile on shaadi.com and invested 900 hours over a period of 6 months and browsed already 8000 profiles of single females as prospective partner. However, to my surprise, shaadi.com didn't worked for me and neither it works for a majority of Indian single youth because shaadi.com is a all time fake publicity stunt and its harassing and discouraging that it doesn't really works. Their relationship managers and sales team will call you now and then to sale their products: diamonds, premium and gold memberships etc etc and the list goes on and on. Its my sincere and humble advice that dont fall into this TRAP a s you might have to repent later. after 3 months of hard work, finally started to compromise with my preferences for prospective partner. Though. I am a double master's from overseas with working experience at S. Korea, Canada, USA and Australia but I was willing to settle for a female with a simple amster's degree working as an HR or an engineer, CA/CS, Marketing Manager, BDS, etc. However, nothing worked for me and finally I was frustarted and depressed. As of now, I have lost motivation toget married or atleast I dont want to get married now with an Idnian girl because of the EGO Problems with Indian girls. Moreover, SHAADI.COM is a least effective means for dating or for marriage purpose. They repeat same profiles and their filter softawares/mechanism are all FLAWED.
In a nutshell, I=if you are serious about marriage, its much better to increase you SOCIAL NETWORK, CASUAL NETWORKING through parents or relative sor word of mouth but shaadi.com doesnt really works. Moreover, please try to invest some time in socializing and don't be a NERD. Don't invest all your time in studying, reseach or career development only. Invest some quality time in making some healthier relationships with oppposite sex as well and who knows it might turn into a marriage. Marriage traditionally has been associated with uncondtional love, devotion adn emotional attachments. However, at present times, marriage has been reduced to a product for SALE by matrimonial sites such as SHAADI.com.
Hoping it helps. Thanks,
Wish you good luck:)-
Ash
