Apr 14, 2006 08:53 PM
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(Updated Apr 14, 2006 08:53 PM)
The two sexes comprising this world, i.e. the man and the woman can never run away from each other until they get the knowledge to create an alternative system. So, whether one is attracting the other or not, is still what matters.
The man wants to get worshipped by the woman (so bad), but don't the women have alike desires ? Of course there is no harm in it.
But, giving nothing and expecting everything is simply not justifiable. The early societies did a lot of injustice to the women folk yes, but what were the women doing ? It was not only the story of a tortured woman by the man, but it was a story of tortures of the strong over the weak, the humiliation caused by the intelligent to the foolish people, the insult done by the insensitives to the sensitives.
But again, sensitivity itself without an intellectual support is good for nothing. Till now, studying the average attitude of women, it can be said that they have been just claiming to be a sensitive receiver doing very less to call upon the psychological needs of men.
No, I am not talking about the efficiency they have proved in the professional circle, I am talking about the relationship factor with the men.
After all, be a woman educated, half educated or not educated, the desire to be coupling up with a satisfactory conjugal relationship have always been there. So, the ideal woman, in her own eyes even, is never dependent on the achievements got from the (not so interesting) fields like studies, sports, profession etc., it is still the curious eyes of the men, and it is the same picture there on the other side. The proofs are the flourishing business of beauty contests, beauty parlours and most of the magazines including beauty tips. I think, both the race now, are too much confused about how to win the ultimate goal keeping it hidden. The solution is really very very tricky, man cannot go back to the animal stage, nor can they behave like Gods (even they did naughty things) so, they are concealing at times the real truth, sometimes they are intentionally and forcefully shameless. This issue has become like the food we need to have but cannot digest.
So, a private suggestion for my fellow beings : human beings are burdened with a peculiar essence of curiosity. Once you kill it, all the game is over. Mr. Bernard Shaw observed it right, that the ''dress-code of a woman should be long enough to cover the subject and short enough to sustain the interest'' - and be honest with your shame and shamelessness.