Hi frens my review is on “Cyber Luv”, didn’t find any appropriate category so posting it here, sorry for that. Well here is the review:
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“My sweetie I luv u from all my heart”
“Oh my doll u r so sweet, I wanna hug u my sweet little baby”
“I miss u so much my sweetu”
“I cannot live without u jannu”
“Plz meet me soon darling otherwise im gonna die”
And the baby wanna fly after this sweet sweet talk, or I should say all the babies with whom he was chatting simultaneously.
And the same do the gals.
“Oh honey u r cho chweet”
“Where were u, I was missing u like hell” (Even she was chatting with others too and still chatting)
And then the guy is also getting ready to flirt.
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Over the net U don’t know the people, exactly with whom u r talking, most of the times they r fake, and even you also enjoy in making the others fool by creating fake accounts or identities.
Chatting (or cheating)– The most popular n favorite time-pass for teenagers/youngsters/college goings. They chat just to have fun, to get some entertainment, to add colors to the life; these people go to chat rooms reasonably frequently.
People at some mature level also chat, but to talk to their frens, or for business purpose, or sometime they enter to chat rooms to share their feelings joy/sorrow or sometime for some naughty stuff also.
The folks who r metro sexual/working/experienced of chatting just flirt, they just wanna have some enjoyment, pleasure, fun or whatever.
The folks, very new to chat, not aware of metro culture, or very innocent very easily may fall in luv (I personally feel it should be “Rise in Luv”), they misunderstand this flirting talk to the serious one.
After sometime you both start talking on phone, share SMS and may go for a date and some other stuff also, as people r very smart and they make u senti very easily by calling u sweetie / sweetu / jannu / Puchhu / sweetheart /boss and some other senti dialogs also.
But afterwards when reality comes across, u just get shattered, very pathetic situation, as u were pretty sincere but others were just making the fun.
Then it becomes very tough to forget the things. The palace of your imaginings is collapsed, only sweet memories are left alone.
“Heart is a pond of sorrows,
Where fishes of sweet memories,
Floats always”
(Dil hai dukhon ka ek Taal, haseen yaadon ki machliyan jahan doobti utraati hein)
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In our own home Mouthshut people may get infatuated with each other. Here we share our own views, thoughts, and sometimes so many M2Ms and even emails, so its very natural that likeminded people become frens and its very much obvious one may start to like someone special. Here the chances r more to get attracted coz pen is the index of one’s personality and you may feel he/she is the person u ever dreamt for.
Here u get to know the person very closely, u know one’s likings, disliking, feelings etc, but u never know what exactly one is having in one’s mind, coz the way one is portraying oneself and the way one is writing, may be the mode to achieve the popularity, success.
Most of the times we find genuine members, but still those genuine members may also hide some of the facts e.g. sometimes some may hide that they r engaged or married, most of the times their age, but it will be more appropriate to say that they didn’t tell about or didn’t mention instead of saying they hide. Even I didn’t mention my date of birth. Everyone wants to cover some privacy.
Here im talking about only the members with whom one is in regular contact or with whom one shares so many M2Ms/emails. Im not saying that one should disclose it initially (if they want to hide), but if we feel that the other person is taking too much interest then the things should be clear at initial stage, so that later that person will not get hurt.
Some folks on Mouthshut consider this place is for making friends only; and this is a fren finder site. These ppl never write a single review, no comments, and no ratings. They just send M2Ms to fellow members.
Rather than concentrating on there own review writing, they use this site for the purpose, which makes others feel bad.
I know its not good idea to share personnel things, still to convey the message of using MS as for better purpose, sharing one such M2M I got:
“Hello miss
u are absolutely drop dead gorgeous
any guy would like to have you as his girl friend
I am from bangalore India
pls be my friend for discussions reg products and daily life
rgds
Name of the guy
Mobile number
bangalore”
Well I wanna have attention of MS management to take appropriate actions against such things........
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So the folks please don’t get serious on the chat (This advice is not for metro folks, as they r smart enough to handle the situation or making the fun of others.).
Do chat whatever you both want, on your own risk. But never play with the emotions and Never ever get serious on net.
This is all virtual; thus don’t try to visualize your virtual luv into real luv.
Enjoy the chatting :)
