Dil, Dosti, Etc. Review on General Tips on Impressing Women

Nah, this has nothing to do with the movie of that name, just a rambling of my views on this topic. Honestly I dont think I could really add value to this topic, as I have never been a ladies man kind, you know the sort of guy who has the ladies eating out of his hand. But yeah, while I aint been a Don Juan or Cassanova, I did and still do have a large number of female friends, both online and offline. And again if ur seeking some tips on how to patao females or sweep them off their feet, you are asking the wrong guy, I am extremely poor at that. This is basically some observations of mine on my interactions with females. Well one thing I can say for sure, is that you could be some one's boyfriend or  some one's fiancee or some one's love interest, but at the end of the day, only one word is the key to an effective relationship, "FRIENDSHIP" or what  you call as "DOSTI".  Even if you are into a love relationship with some one, if that was built on a foundation of friendship, that kinda love is likely to survive for a longer period of time.

One thing which women do really fall for is the feeling that you are there for them. You may be a very ordinary looker,  not too rich, but trust me if you make the women feel that way, you are gonna be a ladies man for sure. And now the question is how do you make her feel that way?  Hmm let me put it this way. You have this friend of yours, who is involved in some kind of a messy relationship, some thing you know is gonna be a disaster. So your first instinct is to tell her to get out of it, and prove yourself a very good friend. Right? No, Wrong?. When ur female friend tells you about her problem, she is not expecting you to be a hero who will come and rescue her out. She is telling it to you, because she wants some one to listen to her and emphathize with her. Dont preach to her about right and wrong, dont give her advice about what to do, what not to do. Because that is entirely her personal life, and only she can come out of it. Just listen to her, empathize with her, and leave the decision in her hands.  That is what she needs more.  Its a simple fact, Preach Less, Listen More.

You might be very good friends with her. Pretty close to her, but dont take that as an excuse for piling on her. Unlike males, females value their space and privacy a lot. There are times when she just wants to be by herself. Dont go into an overdrive, dont get too concerned, and keep on asking what happened or offering help. Women have this tendency to be alone, be private at times. In such cases let it be so. Offer her space, respect it, and just let her be as is. When she feels like sharing her feelings with you, she herself will. Again at times she might not share it also, dont  take that, she does not like you. It is just that she feels you are not the right person who could understand it. So let it be, heavens are not going to fall for that. The funda is simple, Respect her space and privacy.

Ok and finally you meet this female, whom u really like. And you tell this to ur pals. And yeah there goes your date for a toss. The worst thing is telling ur pals, that you are dating some one, or going out with some one. Because then you get all kind of hopeless, useless advice, like you need a bike or a car, or you need to wear X Brand of clothing, or Y band of perfume or Z Brand of Garbage to impress. Poppycock of the highest order. When you are out with a female, she is looking more for a guy with whom she can talk to. With whom she is comfortable. And yeah only thing is dress decently, and one in which you are comfortable. If you have a bike, fine, if  you dont  have, well she is not going to snub you. If she snubs you because you dont have a bike or coz you dont wear X Brand of clothing or Y Brand of perfume, well such dumb, shallow females are not worth wasting your time over for sure.

Well at the end of the day, the best way to have an effective relationship with Women, is simple, "Be a Friend to them", they might or might not end up in your life, but they wont disappear from ur life either.