Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don’t expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart. But if it does not be content that it grew in yours.
Love is not about getting something but it’s all about giving everything. Giving more than you have and expecting nothing but nothing in return is selflessness. Love is not selfish and you also won’t wish your love to be selfish. You still be content if you don’t get anything in return. You should be proud that you loved someone deep from your heart. You should respect your feelings and move ahead instead of crying on it. I don’t say you don’t cry at all. Weeping is a part of human emotions and it will always be there. But make it as an instrument of courage and strength instead of making it as a depression gadget. Always remember it’s better to meet the person who truly loves you later, than meet someone now who promises to love you but sooner and later will leave you forever. God is your silent lover and he always gives you an opportunity to find the diamond of your life. Believe in God. Whatever he does is always good for you. Never take someone for granted, hold every person close to your heart, because you might wake up one day and realize that you’ve lost a diamond, while you were too busy collecting stones. The person who betrayed you may be a stone so don’t waste your precious time in just collecting those stones. Life is a beautiful gift given by God, make best use of it and spend some lovely time with those who loves you and cares for your instead of wasting it on thinking of something, which is meaningless. I know it’s not easy but trust me nothing comes free here and remember you can’t discover new oceans unless you have the courage to loose sight of the shore.
For me it’s always tough to write on this topic. I don’t want to lose anything in my life however the value is. I have kept my childhood toys, cloths, books everything still with me. I keep each of my rewards and you won’t believe but I have kept a little “kagaz ki nav” given by someone still with me. Little happiness and cherish able memories always attracts me. Something, which is made to consulate you, is never my cup of tea. But still I thought to write something here on this topic. Let’s see whether I have done justice with the topic or not.
1. Bhool Ja:The first song would definitely be Bhool Ja, which anytime deserves the first spot in any such list. It’s beautifully sung by Shaan and expresses true feelings, which one could convey if he wants to get someone back from heartbreak.
In ansoonon se kisko kya hua hansil
Mana kehna hai asan nibhana hai mushkil
Phir bhi ae yaar mere
Sunle meri intezaaa
Bhool ja Jo hua use bhool ja hai kasam tujhe muskura
khud ko na de yun saza
Un yadon ko bhool ja Wo to nahin tha teri wafon ke kabhil
Jane kya soch kar tune de diya apna dil
Is baar dil ka sauda karna na yun bewajhah
Bhool ja Jo hua use bhool ja
Hai kasam tujhe muskura
Khud ko na de yun saza un yadon ko bhool ja
- Ye jeevan hai, is jeevan ka yahi hai rang roop: **Meeting and parting are ways of life. Whatever comes here will go someday. Nothing stays here and this is the true fact of life. One song, which portrayed the same feeling in a very nice manner, is “Ye Jeevan hai” from “Piya ka Ghar”.
Yeh Jeevan Hai, Is Jeevan Ka
Yahi Hai - Yahi Hai - Yahi Hai Rungroop
Thode Ghum Hain, Thodi Khushiyan
Yahi Hai - Yahi Hai - Yahi Hai Chaon Dhoop
Yeh Jeevan Hai.
Yeh Na Socho Isme Apni Haar Hai Ke Jeet Hai
Ise Apna Lo Jo Bhi Jeevan Ki Reet Hai
Yeh Zid Chodo, Bandhan Yuh Na Todo
Har Pal Ek Darpan Hai
Yeh Jeevan Hai.
- Kasme waade pyar wafaa: **Some songs tell you exactly about human relationships. They tell you whatever you are facing is nothing new, it all happens with everyone. So, don’t cry on it and take it as a normal ways of life.
Koyi kisi ka nahi ye jhoothhe,
Naate hain naato ka kya
Kasme waade pyaar wafaa sab,
Baatein hain baato ka kya
- Sapna tuta hai to dil kahi jalta hai: **It is said people get crazy in love they can do anything even they can go for suicide. Feelings I can very well understand but I guess these people are really selfish. If they can die for someone they love, why can’t they live happily for those who love them? Before hurting yourself think about those who gets hurt due to your stupidity. This songs truly says the same:
Apun jaise tapori ko kya malum
Sala pyaar kis chidiya ka naam hai
Lukkha giri karke apna timepass hota hai
Bidi paan chaye milta hai bus apun khush
yeh pyar ka lafda locha kaye ko kaye ko
are kaye ko re
Phir bole to ek din apum ke mohalle main hema aayi
Sala apun ka khopdi chakkar kha gaya
Truck ke saath bhi sala takkar kha gaya
Remember these lines:
Sapna toota hai to dil kabhi jalta hai
Haan thoda dard hua par chalta hai
Sapna toota hai to dil kabhi jalta hai
Haan thoda dard hua par chalta hai
- Upper wala apne sath hai: **This song I have taken from my all time favorite movie “Sirf Tum”. It conveys that if you are confident and your feelings are true, God will always give you the best he has for you. You don’t need to worry at all.
Yaar bhi milega, dildar bhi milega
Are sab kuch apne hath hai.
Upper wala apne sath hai .
Darne ki kya bat hai .
Upper wala apne sath hai …
We seldom think of what we have, but always think of what we miss. Don't cry because it's over now, laugh because it happened. Don’t cry on your past but always look into your future. Remember always someone somewhere wants you to be happy, he loves you, he cares for you and he wants to see you smiling. So get up and start living a happy purposeful live instead of sitting, weeping and living a stressful life.
Laugh at your mistakes and learn from them,
Joke over your troubles and gather strength from them,
Have fun with your difficulties and overcome them…
Thanks for your patience reading and please put some of your comments here .
PS: Never love a love that hurts, never hurt a love that loves.
