My favorite five songs to get over heartbreak are
5. When the heartbreak is fresh and hurting so much it is hard to breathe, then all you want at that moment is for the other person to hurt too. and somehow that makes one feel better and start on the path of recovery.
Meri Bheegi Bheegi Si Palkon Pe Reh Gaye
Jaise Mere Sapne Bikhar Ke
Jale Man Tera Bhi Kisike Milanko
Anamika Tu Bhi Tarse
Tujhe Bin Jaane Bin Pehchane
Maine Hrudayse Lagaya
Par Mere Pyar Ke Badle Mein Toone
Mujhko Yeh Din Dikhlaya
Jaise Birha Ki Rut Maine Kaati Tadapke
Aahen Bhar Bharke
Jale Man Tera Bhi.
Aag Se Naata Naari Se Rishta
Kaahe Man Samajh Na Paaya
Mujhe Kya Hua Tha Ek Bewafaa Pe
Hai Mujhe Kyon Pyaar Aaya
Teri Bewafaai Pe Hanse Jag Saara
Gali Gali Guzre Jidharse
Jale Man Tera Bhi.
sung superbly by Late Kishore Kumar in Anaamika
- There comes a stage when you are angry one minute and depressed the other minute. You want to forget everything and then you feel helpless to forget.
khaali ghar ki deevaaron pe sheeshe ki tasveeren hain
main ye tod ke rakh doonga ye yaadon ki zanjeeren hain
jaa jaa jaa mujhe na ab yaad aa -2
mujhe bhool jaane de jaane de
jaa jaa jaa mujhe na .
mere labon pe ye kahaani kyon rahe -2
tu na rahi teri nishaani kyon rahe
ye jawaani kyon rahe zindagaani kyon rahe
jaa jaa jaa mujhe na .
ujada mahal ye veeraanon ki tarah -2
isamein phiroon main deevaanon ki tarah
anjaanon ki tarah begaanon ki tarah
jaa jaa jaa mujhe na .
sung by Kishore Kumar in Prem Nagar
3. When you are feeling unlucky and wallowing in self-pity and feel you will live like this forever, sad and alone but believe me, these feelings pass with time coz what they say about time is true. Time heals everything.
Jaane Woh Kaise Log The Jinke Pyar Ko Pyar Mila
Humne To Jab Kaliyaan Maangi Kaaton Ka Haar Mila
Bichhad Gayaa Har Saathi Dekar Pal Do Pal Ka Saath
Kisko Phursat Hai Jo Thaame Deewane Ka Haath
Humko Apna Saaya Tak Aqsar Bezaar Mila
Humne To Jab.
Isko Hi Jeena Kehte Hain To Yunhi Ji Lenge
Uf Na Karenge Lab See Lenge Aansoo Pee Lenge
Gham Se Ab Ghabraana Kaisa Gham Sau Baar Mila
Humne To Jab.
sung soulfully by Hemant Kumar in Pyasa
2. Nothing in life is permanent. Happiness follows sorrow just as day follows night .
The lyrics speak for themselves.
na munh chhupa ke jiyo aur na sar jhuka ke jiyo
gamon ka daur bhi aaye to muskura ke jiyo
na munh chhupa ke jiyo aur na sar jhuka ke jiyo
ghata mein chhupake sitaare fana nahi hote
andheri raat mein diye jala ke chalo
na munh chhupa ke jiyo aur na sar jhuka ke jiyo
ye zindagi kisi manzil pe ruk nahi sakati
har ik maqaam pe qadam badha ke chalo
na munh chhupa ke jiyo aur na sar jhuka ke jiyo
sung by Mahendra Kapoor in his melodious voice for the hindi movie Humraaz(old)
1. As they say aur bhi gham hai zamane mein muhabbat ke siwa-
This is one of my all time favorite songs esp. the last stanza.
Full of encouragement and realities of life. However hard it might be, you have to move on with your life.
kaha chala aye mere jogi, jeewan se tu bhaag ke
kisi ek dil ke karan, yun sari duniya tyaag ke
chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye
yeh munaasib nahin aadmi ke liye
pyaar se bhi zaroori kayi kam hain
pyaar sab kuchh nahin zindagi ke liye
chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye
tann se tann ka milan ho na paaya to kya
mann se mann ka milan koi kam to nahin(2)
khushboo aati rahe door hi se sahi
saamne ho chaman koi kam to nahin(2)
chand milta nahin sabko sansaar mein
hai diya hi bahut roshni ke liye
chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye
kitni hasrat se takti hain kaliyan tumhe
kyun bahaaron ko phir se bulaate nahin(2)
ek duniya ujad hi gayi hai to kya
doosra tum jahan kyun basaate nahin
dil ne chaahe bhi to saath sansaar ke
chalna padta hai sab ki khushi ke liye
chhod de sari duniya kisi ke liye
from the movie Saraswati Chandra sung by the ever melodious Lata Mangeshkar
I don't believe in'Jab dil hi toot gaya to jee kar kya karenge' and you must not either!