... Fade To Black ... Review on Dealing with a Broken Relationship

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The Night dawns upon me . its me tonight and my Metallica CD. some 5 cups of tea and im done with my sleep . as the world rejoices Argentina's victory I sometimes ponder where is my victory. even in the happiest times of my life . that vacuum still exists.who is it? was it always like this before. these young grey cells are totally defunct it seems . some more pondering . who is it . who is the one that makes all the difference. or rather who is the one that made all the difference . yeah at last it came . the image comes . I cant see(him/her).the tears are too much too see anything:)  Two options hain . Watch some K serial and go off to sleep(its a cure for insomnia!) or to write at his favorite dumping ground MS. Unfortunately for others. He decides the latter.

The Beginning~ It starts with a boom. Sadly it ends with doom. try remembering those days . the touch of the hand . the blink of the eye . they spoke much more than words. yes you got along as a house on fire. Everything seemed to be beautiful. life seemed to have had hit a purple patch . the memories ofbersthose days shall never go past. Or that is at least what you think. wehave a knack of remembering the good times don’t we? .When inpain man remember the good times. Today he/she is not there for you . That’s the fact. try remembering the time you spent with her . as they say “everything has a saturation point. love is no exception “ . Maybe one day you too will be saturated by thinking of him/her over and over again. Remember the good times and hope that you get back something for the good you did. God has his own way of setting things right . just hope that god does it for you too… have faith in him

The Aftermath~Remember those tears. was he/she really meant for you? Didn’t he/she think once before leaving you stranded in road blind folded. Remember the way she came, conquered and left you. Yes hate her. Hate her from thebottom of your heart. hate her so much that you forget her . Think of the badtimes you spent with her. “Good Riddance!” **say that to your self every time he/she comes to your mind. think that It was never meant to be. Seems hard doesn’t it . but take the courage and do it . God willing it will work out .sometimes hatred is best way to be a peaceful bird. make yourself so strong that no action of him/her can affect you .You will not break .

Hope~ Just think this way . you played your part . you loved him/her to the core . Today its his/her fault to leave you. its their loss and not yours . before loving anyone first learn to love yourself more than anyone . don’t say that you loved him/her more than yourlife. That’s as good a Shakespearean line as it can get . but you wont live being a Shakespeare today . The world will kill you . its hope that makes me carry on . believe in god and remember after the bad comes the good . hope that your good is due for a long time and now is the time its going to come . The one who said that love happens only once hath not known love as they say . Hope that the faith you had put in the relationship wont go down the gutter . it will come in the form of a more successful relationship . to make it simpler. just hope for the better things in life to happen to you .

Single and Ready To Mingle~ Don’t close the doors for any further relationship. Stop being a moon gazer and look out to the world. There are better things in the world than you can ever think of . stop being a nerd who doesn’t talk to guys/girls after a unsuccessful relationship . reach out to others . Don’t act as if you’ve had enough of the world . Just think that there is someone there . in the remote corners of the world(now I don’t mean some lonely island in Indonesia) there is some one who is meant for you . But to make things simpler for others and more importantly yourself try to mix with the other sex. Go out and try some more bird watching.Who knows you get a mighty good catch this time!

The Don’t give a *@#/ attitude~ Yes sir you read that right. Sometimes in life we justhave to close our ears .just sometimes for a change listen to your heart . don’t care what others have to say for you . do what you think what is good for you . if you think that he/she is the one meant for you .then just go for it. don’t go around taking a BBC poll. don’t care as to what others say . the world just loves to be a nosy parker. move on and look out for the one you think is for you . the difficulties ahead are just a part of the package .not the heart of the package. take your pick dude. either you think what the world is going to say about your relation and back off . either you care ash*t and decide what makes you more happy. take this for granted you’ll do yourself a great favor by doing the latter . believe me this will save a zillion heart breaks .

Get Busy~ As they say “An Empty mind is a Devil’s(blushes) workshop”. reach out to your goals . love is a part of life . not the heart of life . so while yousit and ponder as to what went wrong just don’t forget that you have a lifeahead . Go and chase your dreams . be what you always wanted to be before the relation . think that you have a life to live . one bad relationship shouldn’t stop you from cutting the cord of your life . you have duties andwork . dream big and work hard. keep yourself busy . the more you gaze at what went wrong the clock runs out .time waits for no one folks .you arelosing time . get your act straight and chase your dream . I’ll give you immense satisfaction. be busy and be bindaas . look at life in a brighter way.smile:)