Not an easy thing to do. Review on Dealing with Divorce

First of all before getting married, make sure you have known your partner a good long time and that you both want the same thing, which could prevent a divorce on down the line.

However people do change and circumstances change and divorce becomes a reality. There are many reasons for divorce from being abusive to simply the fact you both have grown in seperate directions.

If there are children involved be as kind as possible to the other parent in letting them see each other and try not to reveal your hateful feelings to them if you have any.

I married at 18 and had never been on my own. It was way too soon for me to marry but there was no telling me that at the time.

Two years later I became pregnant and also realised that getting married was a mistake. However I had a firm belief that children should have both parents and I stayed until my son became of age and went out on his own.

At first I was lost and felt all alone. I got on a job with long hours to keep busy, that helped a great deal.

Talking to friends and loved ones was a big help.

I started going out dancing at the insistance of my sister and mainly sat like a bump on a log at first.

Soon I made friends there and started having fun.

I also got back into hobbies that I had not had time for, for years.

To me the main thing was keeping busy all the time.

If you were used to your spouse handling business you might need someone to help you to learn but there I was lucky as I had done it all along.

They also have social clubs for divorced people which I never went to but some may find them very helpful in talking with others going through the same thing.

I to this day am still friends with my ex and count him as one of my best friends.