Nov 15, 2006 05:07 PM
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“Life” is full of problems said my friend to me … You know what I told my friend?? I told him “Life is full of challenges” Both the statements have a similar essence but with different outlook and way of looking things at…
The story moves on my friend was surprised and told me how come you are so confident and ready to face this life full of challenges as you say!! I smiled and told him my secret…
“Dale Carnegie” is the person who have brought lots of smiles on my face and made me realize that life is full of dreams and so should I face challenges with my open arms...
Now I shall reveal a new picture – a story yet untold…
I was very different before I was introduced to a gem book “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by great author Dale Carnegie
It was a Saturday afternoon when I was talking with my another friend online, he told me to buy this book and read it with my heart but not like a novel…I immediately bought this book and found so many things which I had in me but which required a finishing touch…I wasn’t outspoken and still I am not but I have inculcated good qualities like:
ü ü Having Patience,
ü ü Appreciating genuinely,
ü Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
ü Keen observing skills,
ü Being Tactful in Life,
Being Smarter without letting anyone know (to avoid jealousy yaar)
Don't criticize, condemn or complain.
ü ü Arouse in the other person an eager want.
ü ü Become genuinely interested in other people.
ü ü Smile.
ü ü Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
ü ü Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about them.
ü ü Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely.
I thank my friend deeply that he motivated me to buy this book and it is a gem – my priceless possession which not only had helped me but is helping my friends indirectly because people who come in contact with me can never forget me.
Change your life today!
Your comments are welcome
shona
