Jul 18, 2006 03:07 PM
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(Updated May 19, 2007 10:22 AM)
In the western society a phrase came out that behind every successful man there is a women and to add behind every disgust women is there.(seek pardon from our ladies who read it)
A philosopher said that sex and sex is the only thought prevailing 24 hours in men’s mind. Further to add is that u will find every successful and healthy person of whatsoever age group, is sexually satisfied with his better half. But alas in our country the middle age society, the man is always sexually starved bcuz in our society, girls are taught from their childhood that sex is sin. Parents marry their daughter to meet her physical, mental and sexual security.
Same girl who is advised her mother to do Vrat of Monday to get a good husband and she does so but what happens, when she gets married and feels fully secured and satisfied? She thinks her husband her personal property becuz she got him and in the sense of insecurity, she want to do rationing in sexual love making.How unfair is that the lady who dine best and feed best to her husband most often forget to feel his physical need, the sex urge.
Now today’s problem is that we dont discuss sex on bed time.When couples are young, they need not to say sex and their jump on each other starts.Later in the middle age, husband is so busy in his work and returns very tired from his work at night, drunken or not but wants a good sleep. Simultaneously he is also guilty of being drunken before his wife and children that he avoids chat and after having dinner goes to bed straight.And by the way if he wishes to talk sex with her wife, he get hatred words.And now at the age when couple are in mid 50s.Wives are so much religious minded that out of 7 days they are doing Vrat/Upvas for 2-3 days like Monday, Thursday or Friday and obviously ignores her husband.So tough minded are they that their husband feels insulted and hurt and go to sleep.
It is the height of disgust on the part of husband in the middle age or around 50-60 group.And can some one believe that due to ignorance and negligence by wives, husbands many a times think of divorcing their wives or to have sex with market product for 1000 bucks or they try to get in touch emotionally with any of the neighbor/relative.
This is our country where women after some times feels that making sex is like doing sin.One of my friend was saying in tears that love making with her wife is like walking on ash all cool and th is gives them lot of dissatisfaction.And they think that better it was that they would have gone to another room and sleep nicely after consuming 2-3 pegs of Whisky.
As I was saying earlier religion is making women aloof sex and they feel it is sin, weeps a lot lot when divorced, get aloof entirely at home or many a neighbor or friend say that her husband is having extra maritial relation or was seen with a call girl.
How that man is guilty n does he really deserves punishment from a lady to whom he loved so much
