Review Title Review Title. Review on Choosing Gifts for Your Boyfriend

Dear Suj, I met this absolutely hunky John Abraham lookalike and I really, really love him.. And he really, really loves me. Now it’s like this – he just has to check out every girl who passes by. And that really, really gets me so jealous. Am I not good enough for him ? Doesn’t he just really love me, like totally, absolutely ? Suj : Lady, now let’s get some facts right. He was a man before he met you, right ? And he is still a man. So, read ‘healthy male interest’ between the lines.

That means, it’s just eye candy for him. Nothing more. Assuming he is not like eyeballing chicks totally blatantly, it’s O.K. And what’s with this self righteous act ? You go check out some handsome dudes yourself. Repeat after me ten times, ‘I him….I trust him…I trust him…’ And while you’re at it, drop those reallys. -------------------------------------------------------------------------- --------------------------------- Dear Suj, My boyfriend is so mean, na. While we are together, his friends keep calling him on phone and then he has to go.   I am very pretty – everyone says that I look like Kareena Kapoor (giggles). So that means he should love me, na ? But why is he always saying ‘I want to go out with my pals’ and leaving me alone ? Tell me, na. Suj : Um, Bebo lookalike, looks like you got a problem. Or rather, your guy has a problem. You love him, he loves you. So far, so good. But he needs something more than love. Face it honey : He needs . Sure, he adores you. But when a guy’s gotta go, he’s gotta go. Especially when he has a band of boys waiting for him. Especially when it’s his boys’ night out. So back off, will ya ? Let him breathe. Stop hanging to his coat tails. And for God’s sake, stop saying ‘na’ after every sentence. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------- Dear Suj, I am in love with this guy.

Just met him last week and rightway there was a connection. I feel that he is my soul mate and I know he feels the same way about me. I proposed marriage to him yesterday and you’d think that he’d be relieved that I took the initiative. Instead he just beat a hasty exit from the scene and is now nowhere to be found. Did he just run because he loves me too much and can’t face it ? What did I do wrong ? Suj : What did you do right, sister ? You meet a guy a week back and propose marriage to him. No wonder he just fled the scene. I won’t be surprised if he fled the country. It’s not easy being the ‘soul mate’ of a determined, aggressive female. Every relationship needs time to grow. Don’t corner him, don’t push him. Get a life. Enjoy yourself. Remember that good things happens to her who waits. And repeat after me fifty times. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------

Dear Suj, though my boy friend says that he loves me, I am sure he is lying. How can he if cannot even remember that yesterday is the first anniversary of the day we kissed ? He had also forgotten the day we had first seen each other. He had to be reminded of valentine’s day and my birthday. He even looked blank when I reminded him on the anniversary of the day when he had first called me ‘sweetheart’ ? Suj : Whew ! Whew ! I can see what the poor guy is in for. He needs some and obviously there is none coming from you. Remember, he’s from Mars and you’re from Venus. He can’t for the life of him imagine why anniversaries and birthdays mean so much for you. Get that female intuition in tune. Sure he love you, in his usual, gruffy, awkward way. Start loving him for what he is, not some media-imposed idea of a man in love. Don’t try to change him. He may not send you flowers and he will not serenade you with guitars and a rose between his teeth. But he cares. The way a man loves a woman. Is. Different. But. Real. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- -------------------------------