True face of love. Review on A Himalayan Love Story - Namita Gokhale

this rvu is not about book I have requested ms to add a new topic but I guess they dont take notice so posting it here , happy bday papa and happy bday love,

gradually the meaning of her cries begin to take a definite shape in my mind I leave my chair and take a few steps to the net the sparrow on the net perches off the wall and take a few steps before befor lunging downwards to scrape the ground , the whole action seems a manifestation of anger and she repeats this action several times I can feel the heat of her anger onto my skin,i cant make out what has happened to her, has her nest also been distroyed by the no'rwester?by the time soft morning sun has bcome harsh and I now stand almost leaning against the net the lone saparrow soars,dividing down along a croton that has been growing along the wall she touches the ground and drwas back instantly bcz of the wall the rays of the morning sun dont reach the base of the tree so the spot is always shadowy, I look at the gathered darkness and suddenly freeze a cat sitting in the darkness and a sparrow dangling form its mouth blood smeared but still alive,the female sparrow shoves her claws into the net she flaps her wings and gasps for breath looking into her eyes I bcm agitated,the cat cathes a sight of me but im prisonre in netted varanda, yet it bcms wary and darts away across the small garden ,female sparrow is now on electric wire ocaassionally breaking the silence of dead atmosphere by an intense cry,gazing at the colapsable gate through which the cat disappeared,she seeems to be absorbed in some profound thoughts but whatever she is feeling she seems to be gathering courage to keep breathing or to live again ,perhaps she believes that her life companion will return again her eyes reflects her expectations as my eyes reflects mine,the whole day pass whenever I hear twittering of her I hasten outside my eyes see nothing but a solitary sparrow sitting on electric wire or shifting its place from mango branch to cpestonse , from copestones to electric wire but whenever it perches on electric wire there it remains for longer.its now the second day morning sun is milk polite and sparrow is not alone I guess she has found a new companion.

besided the physical aatraction many people are drawn to those who have shares the same interest why do we fall in with some people and not with the othres all of us carry a psychological blue printholding details about the life experiences and the marks they have left each of us have an unconcious capacity to scan others blue print the people we are attracted towards are who have a blueprint that complements ours'own the purpose of an unconcious fit is to find someone who can complement our experiences .

parent child:this type of couple often has shared issues with dependency and trust one partner copes with those issues by behaving in a child like way thier partners takes of the role of a parent and thus supress thier own needs for dependency which is acted out by the others.

i have read somewhere that if u do good deeds in this life then u will be a king or a saint in next life but if ur a bad boy , well be ready to born as an insect or a dog,generally indeed I dont believe this interpretation of reincarnation otherwise im sure to be born as a bit*hconsidering my deeds,i believe that u have just one life on this planet earth and u r not going to be born again and again but during this one life span u r for sure born again and again,and on every bith ur a different person altogether,ur firm believes , ur nature , ur general attitude towards life take drastic changes when for very first time u see a person badly crushed by a truck and a part of his arm still twitching , when ur grandmother dies, or when u r very first time insultedafter each of thses and many more experiences rebirth happened and u feel like a new person with totally reshaped perspective towards life.y be so morose and phylosphical about this reincarnation bsns,y not look it at from a different and more pleasent angle, my grandpa saysmy father just hated childern he avoided those little brutes like plagues,and he cudnt understand those who cuddle them saying all sort of silly things to please them just to bring a single smile on thier faces he also avoided his married frndswith kids and cud not ever forced himself to declare that there childern are beautifull specially when there noses were running profously,finally like most human beings he too was trapped in marraige and he accepted this as an inevitable hand of fate but about kids he was still in neutral gare then I came in his life.i was told that I was still muttering bla bla and did not utterd a single proper wordbut then once in a fine morning I went to him and utterd my first word and it was what he feared I grabbed his arm and casually said pa,as he says it was the most beautifull word he had ever heard then throughout the day he had followed me whereever I went hoping that I will once more call him pa whenever I obliged me his eyes started brimming .

i remember once in night I started howling "pa elephant, just one elephant"at 3.30 pa suddenly got up and placed me on front seat of his small suzuki and rushed to the zoo and then cursed the authoritatives bcz it was closed .heartless people ! dont they have a common sense that a kid may want to see an elephant in night, and at that time he wanned to present all the famous elephants of history in to my little hands.rebirth , reincarnation isn't it?lov do have the power to mould people's life thier epinions and thoughts.

master slave:here one partner is bossy and takes charges of every houshold circumstances while the other dutifully toes the line.

distancer persuer:the unspoken agreements are here is that one will chase the nag the other for more intimacy while the others runs away.

idol worshiper:one partner puts the other on a pesedtal this often indicated an issue with competition. my weakling fingers are often get trapped into the locks of my curly hair but whenever I feel this custody is getting nusianced and that watery substance rather warm run down from my cheeks my lips move in a way like saying god help me then I realize the strenght of being relegious and I dont disturb this process lest the heart is narrated, there is a statment genetically coded in my mind which is I love whom I worship.

frnd and frnds:thank god humanity do have an option to choose frnds,we are free to do anything with to pick and not to pick bsns.

for bday boy::u are the most beautifull person I have ever seen ,well said ego and self respect in those arch shaped eyebrows all the maturity and tresure of experience in those forehead wrinkles some times I really wanna fall in those sea(forehead)waves(wriknles)complex curly hair and each curl exhibiting the each tough day of life, and lips yet silent ,sealed tightly stiched.

as we progress through our relationships we slip into certain patterns of behaviour all fits serves a psychlogical purpose and designed in a way to aviod discomfort most couples are'nt aware of thier fits untill something happens to change it we all grow and get mature our needs change our relationships are neccessary to adapt thses changes.