The title may seem very odd or somehting that gets you thinking... you wanna know the meaning eh?? well, here you go!
By "double standards" I am refering to the girl-boy thing... I am talking matter-of-factly, when a boy flirts, has girlfriends, bla bla, people call him a charmer and when a girl does the same thing, she is said to be 'cheap'... am like "Man!! wat kind of a double standard is THAT??!
Flirting and checking out the opposite sex is like a trial and error method... And I beleive -Its better you hurt some hearts in this trail and error method than live a 'lifelong error'. If you say "How can you hurt someone?" I'd say "Dude, if you wanna be too sweet, dont hurt him/her, and then you dont have the right to regret your decision in the future!"
If you tell me "I'm fair so only fair would happen to me...and all crap..!" I'd say "If you are asking god to treat you fair cause YOU are fair, its like saying a tiger to not eat you up because YOU are a vegetarian. You better stop believing that crap than be disappointed in the future(here I dont mean to say stop believing in god. Am just saying that stop depending on god for everything man! He does take care of the world but that doesn't mean he takes care of all your sorrows! He is like a guardian, he'll be by your side in tough times, not that he wont let you go through tough times at all. If depending on the almighty was all we needed to do, life would be quite easy... but the reality is its NOT!)
Well I know thats a bit difficult for you to consume... but... that is IT!
So whenever you see a girl flirting around and trying on you.... Atleast dont call her 'cheap'... u can call her something lik 'flirtatious' or whatever!
