LOVE ?? Does this Exist Today ??
Think again if you say 'YES', and if U R practical then u've replied 'NO'. Yes, my Friends, it me Cattie, who STRONGLY believes in LOVE, telling U Guys this !!
Mankind has 'Destroyed' Love in every aspect, in every possible way. There are only Grudges, Hatred, Jealousy, Competition and Cruelty everywhere. Poor GOD, himself must be wondering 'Why he made EARTH with so much of Love and Care.
LOVE has become a Style of Life in today's college generation. They LOVE, Break-Up and then MOVE ON, as they call it so proudly !! See the Fastrack and Virgin Mobile Ads, which say MOVE ON !! Move On Yaar, Bahut Fish hai Sea Mein !! (Translation - There are many Fish in the Sea).
Coming to the Married Generation of today, except for the Older Couples, how many New Generation Couples have still secured their LOVE ?? The Honeymoon is over and we take each other for granted !! And then you either Divorce or Stay Together like strangers. If you are lucky to have kids, then THEY are the Bonding Factor. So these marriages 'Pull On'. The rest either live bitterly or go to the escalating Divorce Lawyers population !!
I know of a story where there was a meek, simple girl, who fell in love and got married at an early age of 20. So innocent and humble she was, that she made herself a slave to her husband and his family. And year by year, the bitterness grew and her love slowly evaporated form her life. She had no hope left, no support from her family. But she decided not to give up and she worked hard at making her marriage Bloom again. But her luck was rotten and all she got back was Snubs and Kicks.
So she buried herself in Business and Career Life and made a Success of herself. This gave her Happiness to some extent. But still, she was Lonely, very lonely. Her Heart longed for Love, for Appreciation, for Hugs, for Ardor. And then she found Love !!
She found Love in her Friends. She poured out all her Love on them and was delighted when she received their appreciation and the bonding became her Joy !! She also realised that her 'Virtual' Friends were even closer to her Heart, as she had never received so much of Appreciation and Kindness and Pure Simple Love !! And the Net became her World.
Thank GOD for the Net, a place, where a Lonely Soul can go and make friends and life in a Fantasy World. Here she found she cud make Friends and be Happy. And so she Compromised with Life. Her Work, Her Home, Her Net, Her Virtual Friends. The pleasure in Online Shopping, where she did not need to go Alone to Malls and pass her time looking at couples walking around and wishing she had someone who loved her, next to her !!
Life became once again Bright and she had something to look forward to everyday......The E-Mails, the M2M, the Messages, the Notifications, the Virtual Gifts !! Wow !! She had never felt Happier before. It was like a whole new World, even though it was Virtual !!
So U see, Friends, Life comes with so many problems and difficulties and pains and problems. BUT WE HAVE TO LEARN TO COMPROMISE AND ADJUST. We cannot Just GIve Up and Move On !!
IF LIFE GIVES US LEMONS, LETS MAKE A LEMONADE OUT OF IT (and add a drop of Vodka for Fun !!)
Do You Guys know, today is her Wedding Anniversary. And yesterday evening she hunted for Florists and ordered a huge 5 feet bouquet to be delivered at sharp 7 a.m. in the morning to her hubby, to surprise him ( or Remind him !!) (Pic of Bouquet attached to this blog). The bouquet came and she ran and hid in the bathroom like a little kid, up to pranks, waiting for her hubby to get the door bell. The beautiful bouquet came in, it was a Gorgeous !!
Then, she went to her hubby and said "Happy Anniversary" and held out her hand for a Wish. And her hubby said "What's Happy About This and Who is it Happy for ??" and walked past her, her hand holding on to the air...................silent tears streaming down her cheeks............as she walked numbly to the couch and sat down and thought.........!
Everyone finished and went to work and she still sat there on the couch...........thinking.......wondering 'WHY ??'. Then she suddenly jumped up picked up her mobile and clicked pics from all angles of the Beautiful Bouquet. She said to herself " Let Me Enjoy This Bouquet !! " . Let me share this Beautiful Gift with my Friends.
And once again she SMILED !! Life may not be a bed of roses............so Wat ?? Let's make LIFE A BED OF SMILES !!
Its your POSITIVE ATTITUDE that can change your Life, your World, your Surroundings. Be Positive, even if you are given nothing. GOD is there and surely he will Bless U with Happiness in some form or the other.
HAVE A GREAT DAY PALS !!
Best Wishes
Cattie
