Dear Readears,
I want to write something about my married life and my experience. I have done a love marriage.Our religion is different.The thing I have learned about marriage is that,marriage is not an eassy piece of cake. Marriage requires a lot of commitment,dedication, patience.Love is a wonderful experience, frankly for me it is not. I feel that after marriage the love vanishes.I am not against love believe me, the only thing I can say is that may be it was not the wrong decesion I made. In life who we marry is very important. I feel that marriage is the most important aspect of life.A good marriage can make some ones life wonderfull, and a wrong decesion of marriage can ruin some ones life.
my personal experience also teaches me one thing that is one has to be very patient in a love marrigae. I will not say that marriage is a eye opener but I can say that a love marriage is a bit more different than a arrange marriage. In a arrnage marriage we Know the persion after we marry and our half of the life goes in findig out who the persion is and what is her/his life style is.
In a love marriage what happens is we know the persion, but we only see the positive or the good side of a persion.......When we start living with a persion is wen we rea;ise what the real persion is.Some times we dont like what the other persion is like that is when the differences stats building up
Well I do believe that it is on boath the patners that how well is their chemistry but I do believ that ladies have do more compromises than the men to survie the marriage.
Well Readers it is just my experience and I am not saying that love is not a good thing or that love marriages dont work. I am just giving my view to it.
