What does break up means, loss of faith, shattering, losing confidence, going to extreme introvertness, crying, not been able to eat, world seems to end; that what break up means, right. The person whom you loved most now hurt you most. Few things coming to mind every time, the words, expressions, nice talks, nice time, that togetherness, everything coming to mind and banging again and again for months. When you have to sob you smile, when you have to smile you sob or cry out loud. Mood swings from one direction to another direction.
Somehow time passes and you have adjusted with your emptiness, Few things still troubles you a lot and sometimes it results in emotional outbreak. The next person moved on and you are still, struggling with a belief that nothing in the world for you now.
I don't know about the girls but boys usually can't handle the break up even if they started dating someone else. It might be possible a girl can move on with another boy and live a happy life but for boys it's not easy, the impressions of break up remain in their mind for long time.
Shall I tell you the reason, boys have the habit of comparing projection of their current girlfriend and last girlfriend and that is why sometimes they want someone so badly that they don't care for the world even if she is married to somebody else.
Stripping clubs and brothels appeal them but love freak them out. It's not easy for anyone to move on easily boy or girl anybody but what all girls want, to get married finally and here the clue you hardly find a girl without marriage but you will find too many boys unmarried and some are never take odd roads of brothels and stripping clubs. They become more charitable, more tender hearted, more stylish, bodybuilders or something creative and more importantly successful but still not married. It's not easy for men to give the emotions again and again, Their high testosterons keep them in unrest state.
It's true biologically girls are complicated but mentally boys are too complicated. Look at the stardom of Salman Khan, girls are ready to go naked for him and the girls whom he ended they all are settled but he is not married yet. He himself said in an interview few years ago, when I cry literally cry like a kid. the most expensive star of Bollywood lives a life of unrest when it comes to love. He dated hottest divas of Bollywood but what he got another pain or might be he is doing deliberately which he doesn't want to do but still do to keep himself in a situation where he can get hurt and previous wounds get healed. It's seems a new pain is remedy for old wound. It's not easy to live like that.
I don't know about Salman Khan but if you ask me I would say dating someone after break up doesn't mean you got someone to get married it just you don't want to marry her, if you call what it drives you nuts, then I would say it's a Salman Khan Factor.
