A One person smokes a cigarette and finds pleasure in it. Another person detests it. One lady divorces her husband. Another craves for and marries the same man.Therefore, pleasure and pain are not inherent in objects and beings of the world. It is how you relate to them.Vedanta is the art of relating to the world.Mastering this technique, you lead a smooth, pleasing existence to yourself and to others.Sw.Parthasarthy