In Life we sometimes find it difficult to handle the different scenario and often we get misguided to a point or extent to which its really implicate in fearful result.We try to escape from certain things which seems to be cynical, typically related to upbringing and existence in a way that others wanted us to, whether its family,friends, relatives or society.I too believe the real worry is not about the what or how to do certain things in life that gives joy to others expectation from us but it is related to the self enquiry or self analysis. The heavy blogs of expectations which increases as we move forward in life, many times leads to the way where we get something for stable basis but its essence is not more than a mere temporary reward. We try to follow up things according to the others expectations, neglecting self expectations and wants in life.Living the existence for the existence of others expectations can really breakdown the inner self, leading to non-understanding of self, which in turn becomes unimpressive to self. Big dreams, innovations, ideas, and possibilities revolve inside all humans, what is lacking is the inability in understanding potential due to the rigid civilizations or we say typical society who manages themselves in accordance to the thoughts and expectations of others. And as a result, new generation too find it difficult to put forward their own thoughts which in turn flash a lack of change initiative.
What I believe is running hard in meeting the expectations of others and for getting a wealth prospects, young generation often find it difficult to analyse the actual being who they are or kind of what they actually wanted to perform or achieve in life. Everyone wants to be stable, as a result whats happening is generations coming, too find it difficult whether to follow what they want or meet the expectations of loved ones.When we used to be in our school syllable process of learning we got to know about the dreams, in fact big dreams that we can achieve in life with the teachings of good deeds, peaceful world, as a whole about the halt which is quite amazing one, but no one taught there that its completely different world outside waiting for us to exploit fully in a way that we become the part of unwanted society living structure which is full of malafide deeds, corruption, wrong teachings and completely contrasting to what we used to learn in school days. The parents who is responsible for the good upbringing of their child and who used to scold their child in the days of school in Parent Teacher Meeting for wrong behavior, are making deliberate effort to anyhow settle their generation with means which is not only morally but also legally incorrect. I don’t want to question them but due to all these we often find it difficult to actually understand the value of self behavior that can be created when we believe that certain things are rational or not by self only.
The hustle is all around everyone say run! run! run! but for what no one is there to actually tell apart from temporary wealth and reputation what we are going to get. Thus it put a question in my Mind Why should I?. Its not that this question does not comes in everyone’s mind that what I called a self analysis initiative. Raising questions sometimes are hard enough as we don’t get answer that we really need to know rather irritated and imitated answers of society is what we get. The result is again, no one ask questions and comes in line with others waiting for something which has no meaning in self satisfaction or I say is temporary wealth and stability. Education which is playing an important role among youth, is something which always says about good deeds, self analysis, understanding and making world and society full of civilized people and peace living but it is the lack of mind-set of people that regulates around the most of the corners of living places that has made worse impact in right implementation of education. I sometimes find it difficult for me to understand whats going to happen in my own life, the reason is obvious I follow real education concept and its self analysis and intuitions that comes inside which tells just do what you want, keeps moving my actions.I understand the problems are high, but till now I found my self in achieving self control over my world imagination and how I want to look it from every aspects. All is the result of the self analysis and ongoing planning of actions which is for meeting out my own expectations rather than meeting out others.
The whole aspect of ongoing concern rotates around the kind of aura and environment we want to nurture and grow. Whats we need to understand is the concept of self growing mechanism, whatever the way or treatment we might be offered from others is not relevant in stake of our own charisma of dreams and projections in life. Having the consolidated trust in our own thoughts and maintaining the same vibrant is really important. The kind of “Whenever situation will Be Favorite I will do the same” concept is like tossing coin for head and tale which doesn’t work out in actual. The guidance is important but what kind of, that matters a lot. The purpose is not against the tone but about the thoughts created out of our own analysis and rationality that can contribute in developing the habit of growing mechanism of self analysis, searching, self questioning and self-examination. Having control over actions and thoughts can really have a effective creation of minds that sees the world from their own perspective rather than others and ultimately result is our own.strong text
