Since I was a child I always wished to follow my own ethical principals , I believe that when you offer love and respect to some one in return you to deserve the one, if I do not get so I always felt like demanding one but I was never given a single chance to do so as I was the youngest kid in my family and my family was never a nuclear it was full of unwanted ants ,uncle, fathers sisiters their husbands kids and a dozens of sevents. which always as a child I felt I do not need either of them in my family.
Even though you are offen asked to kill your feelings you cant kill your inner thoughts and your own life principles. I found my childhood to be disturbed one and I am still not happy for what happend as that lead me to follow one Principle Tit for Tat. As my father was yonger son so was my mother a younger daughter in law, and sisiter in law she was always dominated by other members she never got any chance to raise her opinions and so was i. This made me a vey angery and over reacting person.
And whenever I raised my opinions or views against unethicl thinks and when so ever tried to preserve my self respect I was most of the time rewarded as the undesciplined child. I observed as days and years passd childrens with strong support of there parents can always prove wrong thinks to right. and kids like me with very week parents support are always wrong.
And trust me I still do not no whom should I blam for that.
After certain period I realised that now its the time that I need to fight for my own right, let it be a small tiny thing like why was im new toy handed over to my aunts kid, why was always work of others imposed on me when kids of my relatives were relaxing and enjoying hoildays at my place. This all made me to offen think.
And my mission begain to fight for your own right, even though you are not supported and always blamed. you believe in yourself and you get success. I always raised my voice in school and in college for the position I deserved. need not I always got success but still my hunt gose on.
Once I had been to Rebook shoes store and got my new pair of Sandels, and within seven days they were broken in to 2 pieces . I was very disappointed as I always valued my things as I value my hard earned money. Eveone from my house said do not think on it and let the matter go. But I have ever been sarrounded by negative power and I am used to it I got he number of the company and . The person said we cant help as it was in sale purchase. I called the head of Marketing and spoke to him after couple of weeks working and forcing those people at last I got a replacement of my sandels and that was my own victory and I was so happy.
Second fight for right was of my sisters ONIDA LCD TV. which she spend hell amount and did not wrok for a month , she keept calling to the office and offen was given stupid reasons , 3 times they took to work shop and sent back but the problem continued, at last my sister left hopes. So I decided to take the mission in my hand, I keept calling those people and never got good response. I lodged many times and complaind on net but it was not considerd. at last I decided to fight with the consumer court and spoke to the onida department head and they were forced to think on my problem and after an year my sisters TV was replaced.
My third mission was with one of the well known hair saloon( parlour) were I speen round 7000 for my hair colour and got very disapponting result I lodged a complain on net and was repliyed by the regional manager and offered a complimentary facial, offcourse I did not get time to use that offer, but I was so pleased that my complain was respond quickly.
My forth mission was with my tailor she cheated me for dress material which got damaged in 2 wears so I went and requested her but she was very roude with me and again my sisiters said forget it as they
have build let go attitued. and so I was confused should I go back to her or no, after few days I went and again requested her as it was her fault she agreed to keep it for a month and see if she can do some thing I went after 2 months and the dress was is more worst condition , I lost my patience and concluded REVOLUTION COMES FROM THE BARRELL OF GUN . so I told her if you can think for 50 bugs then why cant I for 3000bugs. within 2 days my dress was ready.
And one more time I had succeded. In spit of hundreds of people pulling me back making me feel guilty since my childhood that I was wrong I had won, and always will continued to FIGHT FOR MY RIGHT.
And request parents to always support their kids when they are ethically right. so they can be a better humanbeing.
Consumers consuming goods always value your money.
