I am posting the blog with a belief that it may be useful for many people including me.
There are certain things which I want to discuss for being a real human being.
You should always have a sound character. You should have the habit of helping people. Always remember, if you help someone whenever that someone is in need you are not doing any favour. Its your duty to help others. Never expect in return anything. The more you help others, God will always be with you whenever you are in need. I am not telling you to help someone beyond your reach but give your maximum.
Never tell negative about anything. Always be positive. Take your surroundings positively. I often see people being so negative about everything. Even I am not good in this aspect. I also have the habit of being negative. And I am trying to come out of this weak point. If you see negative things around, ignore it and take the positive things if there is any. Always remember, the more you be negative with things around, your life will be a big negative. For example, if your company's CEO/CTO is troubling you. You are not at all satisfied with the job. Everyday you are getting to know you dont have any personal and family life, you are being paid less and you are expected to work extra. No professionalism around. You should never loose heart, you should never take all these things negatively. Nothing is permanent in this world. Everything is temporary. Always feel the more you are struggling with life, the more good results you will get in life. I am telling all these because I have been always a person with negative attitute. I came to know about this weakness in me and slowly slowly I am trying to come out of this.
Always be very friendly with people around. Always make more and more friends because you know "Har ek friend zaroori hota hai" Never hurt your friends. Always tell good about your friends. I was been in a residential school and college from the past 10 years and I have a really good quality of making more and more friends. All types of friends. Always make versatile friends ie all types of friends. If you see there is something wrong with any of your batchmate/classmate/friends or office people. Try to rectify him/her and if it is beyond your reach then ignore it but dont tell negative things about him/her. If you are working in a company where you are bound to work under your lead/managers. Never think them as they are your enemies because they are also employees like you. If they make you sit till 9 PM sometimes. Never bitch about them in back or have a negative approach towards them because they are just simply employees. They are just following the instructions given by their seniors to finish a particular task. So they are equally bound like you. Love your lead/Managers because if you love them, they will also have a good positive thinking towards you. Work whole heartedly. The more you work the more you learn. If you make enemies, nothing good will happen to you but if you make only friends and friends all good things will happen to you and you will always be a happy person.
Always be a one man woman or one woman man. I have seen people discussing "she/he was my ex gf/bf". "I had a break up last month". "I had many gfs/bfs when I was in college". Friends when you have one family how the hell you can think about many life partners. Be in love with one girl/boy with whom you will spend through out your life. Be true to your life partner. For fun in your childhood you keep staring at sexy good looking girls/handsome boys but always be good to your love.
We all say that life is too short. But friends life is too big and there are many things to explore. Always try to achieve for the best. Never feel like to be like a ordinary person. I always feel to be like ordinary person so I guess through out my life I will remain a ordinary person. Its so funny that I am only like this and how the hell I am advising you people. :) :) But its a fact if you think like lets live a mediocre life, you will never become highlighted. Always try to make your mark in your arena. Plan yourself where you will stand say after 10 years. According to that plan, believe in yourself that you can do it. When you have a believe that you can do it definately the road will open where you can execute the plans accordingly for your goals. Recently I have just read a book "The Magic of thinking Big" written by David J. Schwartz. And whatever I am telling these are all from that book. I feel sometimes reading books is really required for us to be inspired by the good things written on them.
I also have many negative attitute towards life and I have to overcome
