Continued from https://mouthshut.com/blog/fiabtpptnm/Tips-To-Get-over-a-BreakUpPart1
Watch Romantic- Comedy Movies
I know watching Rom-Coms during a break up time is worse but I would suggest you to do it. This would take you to the world of Romantic-Comedies and would make you feel good. This works for me. Whenever my heart thinks of one of my crushes my mind says, let’s watch ‘No strings Attached’ and see some of Ashton Kutcher rather than thinking of the guy who has dumped me big time!
I have this folder on my mobile phone and on my computer that have some real good Rom-Coms like No Strings Attached, Friends With Benefits, The Ugly Truth, The Rebound and also have movies that takes me to the different world altogether like, The Namesake, Matrubhoomi, Mr and Mrs. Iyer and Young Adults. The movies written in the Italic are certainly not Rom-Coms but at times even sensible movies help you a lot to let that creative horse in your mind run.
Make a list of movies that makes you happy, download them and watch them whenever your heart wants to think of that guy. It would help you forget him slowly.
Give yourself a break
This doesn’t mean that take a break from work. Don’t ever do that, because as we all know, ‘ Idle mind is a devil’s workshop’. When I say give yourself a break its from flirting or looking at guys. You might’ve heard people saying that, “Flirt with other guys when you are in the break up mode.” But the truth is this would be no good. This would just compel you to compare the new guy to the old one and it would worsen your relationship with the new guy, who could’ve been a good prospective for the future.
So just give yourself a break from all the love and relationship things. Rather just spend some time with your girls. And if you are one like me, who have just ONE girl Best Friend, force her to spend more time with you. Gift yourself those exotic facial and massage from the most expensive salon you’ve ever been to. Go for shopping – again if you are like me who hates to carry those bags and move from one shop to the other, go for online shopping from trusted websites. Go for dinners all by yourself. Just order a pizza and a coke and have it in the pizza parlor itself with the music from your Special Playlist falling on your ears.
So these were the Four things I might apply soon, maybe after my first salary from the new job, but people who are already working and are not bankrupt (like me) can start all of this ASAP! It can help you. Getting over is necessary. One month of this practice might help you a lot. I am going to start this from July and will be updating about it.
On an ending note listen to this song of Flo_Rida and cheer up yourself! Learn the lyrics of this song and keep singing it even at work. I do it! It helps!
