Be A Patient Listener!
It is always Wiserto be a Good Listenerrather than talking Loudand sound Foolish.
DeepListening is miraculousfor both listenerand speaker. When someone receives us with open-hearted, non-judging, intensely listening, our Spirits Expand.
Listening intentlyto someone is one of the best ways to honourthat person and builda strong human connection.
Make use of the LADDERto become a better listener. LADDER?
L ook at the person speaking to you. Make eye contact.
A sk questions. Show that you're interested and that you're hearing what he's saying.
D on't interrupt. Take the time to listen – just relax and open your ears!
D on't change the subject. Changing the subject indicates that your mind is elsewhere.
E mpathize. When someone shares information with you, put yourself in his shoes.
Respond verballyand non-verbally. Using an enthusiastic tone, Smilinghelps too!
The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself. Check yourself against this list of obstaclesto a pleasing personality; interruptingothers, sarcasm, vanity, being a poorlistener, insincere flattery, finding fault, challenging others without good cause, giving unsolicitedadvice, complaining, attitude of superiority, envyof others' success, poor postureand dress.
A good listener tries to understandwhat the other person is saying. In the end he may disagree sharply, but because he disagrees, he wants to know exactly what it is he is disagreeing with. Good listening skills help us get along with friends, relatives, colleagues, be better parents, be better friends, be better mentors, and work better at our jobs. People who listen save time and seem smarter and and more understanding.
A good listener is a Silent Flatterer.. Are U One too?
