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~Pehla Nasha~

By: sweets_desire Posted Aug 31, 2009 Love 1625 Views

Pehla Nasha


Yeah, it was my first love. It was beautiful & crystal clear, like it had never happened with me before. So many times, we keep on looking for someone special everywhere in this world & at the end we find him sitting next to us. Why is it that our first love holds such a special place in our hearts? Why is it so that we have moved on but the memory of that someone special still remains vivid in our minds? Why can’t we think about love in the same way in our next relationship?


Well, it doesn’t happen with love only. There are first few encounters in which we feel like flying & touching the sky. It could be anything like- your first baby, first job, first love, first boss, first best friend, first car, first pay check, your first break-up and the list goes on. Why do we give immense importance to first things in our life? Why do we think about them in such a special manner even if that thing happens again, it still reminds us of the first impact?


Life is strange so does our decisions in relation to it. It all depends on our likes, dislikes, way of thinking or the kind of environment in which we live. The first thing always leaves an impact on us because at that time we are not aware about the complications, risks, trails & tribulations associated to it. There could be lively & a positive result also as a coin has negative & positive side.


First love is treated as a long-lasting attachment & it leaves an imprint on our mind & heart. By first love, I don’t mean falling for the person for the first time. It could happen in your next relationship also. By first love, what I mean is that when you start feeling for the person in a way like you have never felt before. When you truly fall for him & imperfection becomes perfection.


The first experience brings changes into your life. It comes straight from the heart. It is such a state which you face for the first time, where everything seems so beautiful. First love creates hype in our minds. Once it disappears we too feel like disappearing with it. Our life becomes problematic & we feel like that it is the end of the world. This is something which I’ve never expected or thought in a dream & it’s happening with me in real. Things becomes horrible & you want to move on, you want to start a new life, you want to change things which you find difficult to change, you want to remain alone but those days keeps haunting you…& you find difficult to escape from it.


Why is that first encounters leaves an ever lasting impact on us?


Please share your experiences with me


Love


sweets


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