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The Broken Clay... :( :(

By: suraaz Posted Sep 27, 2013 love and relationship 999 Views
(Updated Nov 07, 2013 07:05 PM)

The Broken Clay.:(:(


This Broken Clay gave me the moment to think our life in different perception. We fall in Love with our close one, We care them and we wish them to be in our life for rest of the moment. But time and tide waits for no one, we stumble and make wrong decisions which can bifurcate our dreams, love, emotions and relation. Yes, a bad time can ruin our life and everything can be in pieces, like that broken pottery of clay.


Let me tell you more about this broken clay first


Two weeks back as one of the winner in MouthShut_Official weekend contest, MouthShut_Official.com had send me a t-shirt and a coffee mug. It was a beautiful white colored mug packed carefully. At a glance itself, I felt in Love with this Cup.


Since I returned back from home this vacation in July End, I was planning to buy a Coffee Mug, but I was always lazy to go to the market. So in other way, getting this Cup fulfilled one of my need, one more reason to fall in Love.


Most of my hostel friends know I write on MouthShut_Official.com as @MouthShut_Official celebrity( It feels as if I am on cloud nine when I say this to them, you know!) and few of them have signed up as well. When my friends asked me about the cup I had said them, " MouthShut_Official gifted me". I can see envy on them for me.


But a week back, a small mistake and that cup happened to fall down to break into five pieces. The sound that was produced at that moment is still fresh in my mind. It left me shattered without knowing what to do next?


Initially I threw them in a dustbin, but Later I changed my mind. I collected them, washed them and kept it safely in one box hoping I will try to fix them someday again. This was a gift to me by MouthShut_Official and I wanted to keep it as long as possible, At least for few years.


So few days back, I fixed it up with a feviquick. To keep it safe, I also used cello tape.( You can see it in picture) . I restored it, just to notice it had one small ho-le at the bottom of the cup. I conclude, I won't be able to drink coffee through this mug ever again.



This Broken Clay gave me the moment to think our life in different perception. We fall in Love with our close one, We care them and we wish them to be in our life for rest of the moment. But time and tide waits for no one, we stumble and make wrong decisions which can bifurcate our dreams, love, emotions and relation. Yes, a bad time can ruin our life and everything can be in pieces, like that broken pottery of clay.


Somebody have faced this situation doesn't mean they had had chosen wrong people in their life. It can also happen because of any of wrong decision. Sometime even two very good people, two best friends fail in their relationship, Sometime two beautiful heart who had understood emotions of world fail to understand each other while sometime person who hated most in some bygone days form a perfect example of true relations. Amazing, but still true.


A friend cum sister in my University said me, 'Relation is not about how well you understand the world, It is about how you understand the person'. I then give a deep thought to it, True, It never matters how well we are linked with world, It doesn't matter how many people Love us beyond this compartment of relationship.( Had it been so, We wouldn't have heard the break up and new marriages of celebrity and stars who are well-acclaimed by world.) So It all mattered is how well we can understand that single person with whom we have taken( or will be taking) a covenant to stay for life. It is more or less about the passion and understanding, this is how love Revolves around us and will be revolving even after our departure.


The Bible states'Marriage' as one of those 3 acts( Other two are Baptism and Holy Communion) which can't be abandon once we take it. Still, We see many break up, divorces re-marriage and again conflicts in relationship. In this act, Doesn't our heart break? Will all person be able to come across this nightmare?


People who are courageous enough are able to bring life back to track sooner or later, for few they chose to stay around this miserable phase for longer time, while some have even ended their life at particular time itself. Whatever be the case, it is a reality, once broken heart can never be restored in its earlier position. Just like that broken clay, Our heart will keep remembering this bad-mark, may be with more of careful steps in coming days to live our life.


If the sound of broken clay is so dread, I wonder how would be the sound; had our heart produced when broken. And how big it would be when we can see numerous relationship being broken around the world in mini-seconds. Thanks God, they are muted!


I brought another coffee mug after the day it got broken, because Life has to move on and I have always kept saying,'Life is not only about single promise, Life is not only about a little smile."


Keep Smiling and Enjoy the bond of covenant with your soul-mate, not with an obligation but with a passion, Love and Care.


~ Love and Regards~


Suraj


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