Jan 14, 2013 08:57 PM
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(Updated Jan 16, 2013 08:41 PM)
For men who brag so much about their wealth, earning power, looks, dresses in the cupboard, adventures done in youth life, good job what so ever if he is married and happy the first thing any one ask is how many children you have or they ask any issues. First year.
Any issue, yes we know you are married only last year, love to enjoy the life of married time, being with wife a privacy that gets disturbed by the arrival of a child. Let us enjoy each day of the year, I have so much money to go places, places and romance takes place so much and the joy of having ever green honey moon bring sunshine feel on the face of wife who also not wish to have a child soon, let it take time and they postpone at least for two years. Second year.
Too much romance and all play and no gain make the husband feel wife little borey, borey means feel bored to see her trying to please him with a diff kind of attire, dress and even try to hold him in such a way, all tricks no more work in the second year, and first time the husband when he sees the TV advt the cute one year old kid, cute two months old kid, and neighbors house having a kid just last month and if they live in a flat, the extravaganza behavior of new couple who hold their kid so lovingly first impacts the husband. IT IS MAN WHO FIRST WISH FOR A CHILD.
The first child for any man in this world is of no preference, for a woman a child is whole life, she can build castle around her, if she is with her son, her son makes a trillion changes, she dreams of a son in her dreams, husband has no preference, deep inside a man really love to have a daughter as first present from his wife, here the change factor is wife is for a son and husband is for a daughter because a daughter when held can make the feelings simply divine feel for the father. Now both feel same.
This is so important feelings, both wife and husband are fully involved in making out the feel of having a child and preparation they make instant. Hands touch, hold the fingers makes the idea work.
We will have to have a child not late, but as early as possible, this is what a married woman feels, two years is enough feel for her to wait, now she is really ready for the total woman hood and carrying the child in her womb is something she envy and also love it. Preparation for having a child.
This is the most climax feel which is not as one think in terms of romance or sensuality, god to divine feelings between wife and husband takes place, the one to one and becoming as one body they intensely watch in each others eyes, this is not at all sexual, it is total to become one responsible for the arrival of a baby inside her womb, and each time they have a climax they really pray god for getting the journey of the inevitable into her womb and if it clicks the joy for the husband is euphoric.
To be contd, because this is life line for many in their lives.
The main aspect needed in the heading of this review is to give tips, I have only written tip of the ice berg, ship is inside means our whole life sorround with the family after we get a child or children, each child arrival can make or unmake our future life.
Most become very careless and indiffrent and think giving love, being with the kids in the evening taking them for outing is all.
As they grow the number of tips which will be worth at least a million for each year, I can easily narrate almost on daily basis or month basis or year basis.
For this interest to read this review start from getting ready for a child, there has to be enough romance, deep sensual feel towards each other because the child is the product of union between to lives who are the cause for the child, hence this will be almost a kind of dictionery or encenclopydia so have patience if you find this as usefull to come back again for tips that will be for days to come. Marriage is the foundation for bringing a child.
Without marriage aspect both boy or girl never think interms of having a kid out of enjoying each other, this is at least not in india and may be in tribal or in western countries.
Raising a child is not a education to learn, not at all after one get a child, preparation for a child and taking care tips is the most important factor for the man concerned.Unfortunately neither before the marriage, nor after the marriage the man is never really worried deep ocean aspect of the child taking care. Child taking care may be easy.
when the baby is less than one year, the man who sees the beautiful baby in his arms the baby is just two months, he holds for a few minutes and gives back, for milk feeding, Feeding alone takes a whole year for the mother and in this time the man never speak much with the wife.Yes first year full time the wife is engaged with the baby and the breadwinner is all curious on the baby who is his product or he is the father and cause for the birth of the child in the womb of his wife. Having a child and its impact must start at teen age.
Now I really feel the person who is interested in other sex must know it ends with marriage only.
Yes no matter what happens one may have tens of girl friends they all want to know the attitude of this boy towards family, wife and also how he may be considered as future father for her child.
to be contd.