Is FLirtiNg aCtuallY Bad ?. Review on Garam Masala

Flirting is usually used in a negative sense of way . A flirt is usually a derogatory remark , might not be that bad a comment many times but it is definitely not a compliment .

Everything has its limits , but I believe pure flirting is not just harmless fun , its not only funny but is also good for your health : socially , mentally and spiritually . And I have sound reasons to believe so .

I just wondered why not put them up here so that we can try to have a look at things in a different , iconoclastic but a practical and more relevant way .

So here's why I think flirting is actually good for you and why you might consider it over having a serious relationship as an option :

1) There are so many girls : the pretty girls , hot girls , tall girls , intelligent girls , smart girls , girls with nice hair , girls with nice eyes etc etc. Ask yourself honestly dont you like them all ?

2) When you are single you are not cheating on anyone , noone can cheat on you , you love everyone , lots love you back .

3) There is no serious Love , so your studies/life is not affected , there is no confusion(except which girl to choose) , and there are no heartbreaks .

4) You dont have to understand woman psychology . You can have all the fun you feel like . You have all the freedom , you can oogle at beautiful girls , still not feel that you are not being sincere .

5) The more you flirt , the more experience you get with the opposite sex , the more wise you become and the better you can decide for yourself when the time comes to choose a partner .

6) Commitments , obligations , responsibilities all come at a time so till that doesnt happen make sure make sure you have a lot of fun . it's a lot better to try and make silly mistakes and do stupid things in life rather than looking back and wondering what was missed .

But this is a world of Valentine's days , Romantic movies , lots of couples at movies ,your friends having Gf's , couples hanging out etc. So why should you also not have a Gf/Bf ?

Well , consider this :

1) Most of the couples spend majority of their time on their mobile phones during studytime , breaktime , collegetime , playtime , well almost all time . I've seen many of my friends getting stuck on their mobiles in the best of the times . If you are stuck physically then one might wonder , but all day on mobile phones , come on '

2) You dont have to wait and try to patao a single girl which is usually futile and many times uncomfortable and unnecessary . most people later realise it was a silly waste of time .

3) I've seen people who have got into an official relationship and then they are eyeing other girls , and then they get into fights , heartbreaks , lousy quarrels . I mean anyone can get into a bad marriage and then have all these , but why make things complicated till you dont get there ?

4) Isnt it better when you are out for gheri , to be able to try on a lot of girls , maybe you dont get the best of image , but come on its lot better than trying on only one person .

Look at it this way :

Your love life does not depend on just one person . Someone doesnt respond the way you feel and you spend your whole day in sorrow / off mood . Is your precious time worth it ?

Or consider the other scenario : you are the average flirt guy/girl who likes a lot of people and when one is estranged your day doesnt go a waste as you meet someone or other on the way . Statistics show that : Just because you are a flirt your chances of meeting the some-other-person-you-will-instantly-fall-in-love-with are much higher than any other person who depends solely on coincidence for finding someone .

Well , if you find all the above reasonable , then you might want to watch movies like Garam Masala again . They really have excellent dialogues for flirting ! I suggest learning them all by heart .

P.S. : Please dont take the above review seriously . This guy is totally nuts and wela - you might as well have guessed that by now . Please dont feel offended if you are a true lover . To everyone reading this : I am sure you dont do eve-teasing , its not nice and in no way I wish to hint at it with this review . I've myself been in very trying situations because of heart tangles in school and college so I just wrote about my findings on the various case studies on me and my friends , which ofcourse I did myself , thank you .

issued in public interest especially for those boys and girls who are falling in love in school and college but still have a long time before getting settled . THANK YOU FOR READING AND BEST WISHES TO YOU ALL .