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Prefer making than made-2
Feb 22, 2004 02:53 PM 9024 Views
(Updated Feb 22, 2004 02:55 PM)

Choosing gifts for a newly married couple, the type of gifts differ based on the


relationship that one has with the married couple or any one of them in the couple. If you are an uncle/aunt/brother/sister/father/mother/some other blood relation you choice of gifts will have to be different from that of the friends who doesn’t have any blood relation but more soulful relation than any others and now I am going to tell you about choosing gifts as a friend. I you have read my past two reviews on Gifts you would remember the line “Prefer Making Than Made” which I am going to insist now also.


Because'A gift is a symbolic expression of your love and care for your fellow being .The person may be your father, mother, sister, brother, husband, wife, friend, lover but the love is the word that is common for all human beings and the one that binds two hearts is “LOVE and CARE”. The concept of gifting is to make people happy on a happy occasion and the gift should be good enough to make the receiver happy and also understand your love on him. But nowadays gifting has become a fashion and it doesn’t serve the purpose what it was meant to be. The price of the gift doesn’t matter at all as it exchanges the priceless Love between two hearts.'


Thought


In my college, I have a group of friends with fifteen guys in the group. Recently me and my close friend in our group were discussing about our future and we became so emotional and we were about to shed tears after speaking such things as we are counting our final days to leave the college. While discussing we thought about marriage of our friends. We decided to find a new kind of gifts for each one of them and we finally thought of a unique gift.


Plan


We friends usually will have a meet at my room to discuss various things and in the same way one day what we did is we called all the fifteen and we casually started to speak about the future and then about the marriage and then about their future wife. At this point we asked each one to tell them frankly and true to heart about “what are their expectations from their future wife and how she should be, do you have any conditions for marriage etc.” Then we asked to speak each one frankly about every other person in our group, about what kind of person he is, what I like and dislike in him, positive and negative aspects of his character etc., and we recorded it all using a hidden walkman.


Create


We are going to make an audio CD for each of the friend in our group. And this audio CD is the gift not for him but for his wife.


We transferred the recorded audio to a computer and we censored and edited, did some technical works to make it sound noise free. Now 15 CD’s are ready as gifts for each one of them.


Suppose the CD is for ‘X’s’ marriage. X is one of the guys in our group.


The audio CD will play for some 30 minutes.


For the first five minutes, it will have the voice of the X speaking about his expectations from his wife, how she should be and what all the things that he told about his future wife. And then for the rest of the time, it plays the words of rest of the 14 friends about X’s character and his+Ve’s and –Ve’s etc.


And along with the CD we are going to present an album of group photos and some of rare photos of  X that we shot while going to various trips and tours to various places.


And also the gift package will have two books


One about child care and another one about Mutual understanding between husband and wife.


We are yet to select the best book having such content so if you know such good books please let me know so that I can get it for our friends.


And it will also have two empty diaries for each of them in which the front page is filled with a message from me .the message is like this


“Write down everything(good or bad) that happens between you two. Split the diary into two sections, one for recording goodies and one for bad about your life partner. Periodically check each others diary and know each other opinion and thoughts about your behavior. This will really make your relationship more smooth and will make your life a lesson for all others. Hope You do so and be an ideal couple”


I think this gift will be more valuable than any other for any newly married couple and as a friend we have done our best to make a newly married couple understand each other better.


Delivering the gift


Don’t know when and for whom it will be delivered first but eagerly waiting for


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