For last may years I have been coming across different meaning of a simple word called “love”. The meanings which I came to know were from different sources like movies, poetry and personal thought process. Some people said that love is a beautiful feeling which can not be described in love, some said that it is sacrifice and some other provided a conclusion that love is nothing but a psychological state of mind which is created due to some changes in the thought processes of mind which is affected by external environment,
When we come to shores of film makers we can say that they are much divided on the opinion. Some good film makers said (in their films) that love is state when you start feeling in a different manner for someone, when you start having sleepless nights etc. Some of the “very good” film makers also said that love is lust.
Now let us enter into the area of poets. The most beautiful thought provided about the love by this community came from GHAALIB, who says,”ek aag kaa dariya hai aur doob ke jaana hai”.
These are some of the basic meanings which I came to know due to my interaction with rest of the world. But still I am not very clear what all about this love is, but let me tell you another thing that this is not the real problem which I have been facing. Due to this situation of not knowing what love is I have to think about another issue that if I don’t know what love is than how will come to know somewhere in future that I am in love or not ?
But this situation was only till yesterday. Guess what? I listened to a song and most of the doubts of my mind were clear. The song which says, “tujh me rab dikhta hai” is from ADITYA CHOPRA’s “rab ne bana di jodi”. A real beautiful song sung by ROOP KUMAR RATHORE. The meaning of love which I could understand that it is the state when you start paying utmost respect to your loved one, for those who believe in god this respect is of the level of devotion towards god and for atheists it may be of level of something which is most respectful for them.
It is not about lust, psychology and all other things but it is about a divine feeling when you start finding the level of god in your loved one. Its all about the state when you start feeling closer to the person you love, even if he/she is not with you. It is all about when you start feeling that love is something which is related to the heart not physical appearance. love is a state when you just want to forget every bad aspect of this world and start finding new arenas of joy and happiness, because what I could understand that love is something which takes you out from the plights of life and takes to the whole new world of divinity.
It doesn’t matter whether you get or not the person you are in love with, but all of should realize that love is a divine feeling which has the power to change our life, so it’s my request to all of the readers to ask a question to them. Do you really find god in the person you love?................
THINK ABOUT IT