The lessons of Hiroshima for U and Me is a diary posted by Raj_onlyone. I hope he does not feel offended by my lifting stuff from his post and listing in my post. Actually, I'd posted a comment to this diary and his response that I'd written a post within his post, prompted me to setup a separate post. To first read his post please access:
http://www.mouthshut.com/diary/jbjbn pss/The-Lessons-of-Hiroshima-for-U-and-Me

The Lessons of Hiroshima for U and Me..

Have a look..... what happen in Japan

The formula was like that ....

They set a goal
They put a dead line
they got identified the obsticles in the road to their goals
they identified the people and groups they need to work with
.................... find out what they need to know more to achieve that
..............develop a plan of action

where are we ..... its hight time to take action in life and get succesful.

My comment:
Arrey toh Apni India mein bhi yehi ho raha hai. Goal set kardete hain, deadline decide kar lete hain, sare rodey (obstacles) ki list ban jati hai, jinka saath chahiye unki list ban jati hai, aur sari se thodi zyada jaankari haasil ho jati hai, aur plan toh har mod pe bantey hain, action ke.

Problem sirf yeh hai ki -
-goal dur se dekhne mein aasan lagta hai (paas se obstacle ban jata hai),
-deadline toh hoti hai lekin hamari ridhh ki haddi (spine) ki tarah badi hi flexible hoti hai,
-rodey dhund ke pehle nipta diye jaate hain (corruption se), lekin project ke term mein naye naye rodey aa jatey hain (transfer),
-sarey saathiyon ko patta liya jata hai (saam, daam, dand, bhed), lekin kabhi govt. gir jaati hai, kabhi mallika ka pallu,
-sari se thodi zyada jaankari ka fayda nahin nuksaan hota hai, ’too many cooks spoil the broth’,
-plan of action ki toh kya kahein, plan hi toh bantey hain, action ka waqt hi kahan milta.

For eg.
-Goal - Flyover project to support 1000 vehicles daily,
-Deadline - 3 yrs. (completion)
-Obstacles - opposition party MLA, local land mafia, dubai ka bhai, greenpeace, nukkad ka paan wala, n many more. (saam, daam, dand, bhed ka istimal)
-Saathi - state govt., builder, contractor, construction material supplier, transport dept(again saam, daam, dand, bhed),
-extra Jankari - commissions, project reports, china project copy, n moolah,
-Plan - yeh toh shuruat mein hi ban jata hai,
-rah gaya Action - toh aaj nahin toh 10 saal mein sahi

By time of completion -
cost spirals to 10 times, n now the need is for a flyover for 10000 vehicles. The process is restarted right from the conception stage again. Cycle chalta jata hai.