In the view of all that happened ..... the write up, the outrage, and the subsequent 'mandavali'.....there is something I wanted to share
I have kept this thing on my desktop...as it is a reflection of what we face as women....no matter where we go, what we do, we are in danger, emotionally, physically etc.....so here goes.....credits to the author in the end
Rules for girls
Don't go out alone at night
That encourages men
Don't go out alone at any time
Any situation encourages some men
Don't stay at home
Intruders and relatives can both rape
Don't go without clothes
That encourages men
Don't go with clothes
Any clothes encourage some men
Avoid childhood
Some rapists are turned on by little girls
Avoid old age
Some rapists prefer aged women
Don't have a father, grandfather, uncle or brother
These are the relatives that often rape young women
Don't have neighbours
They often rape
Don't marry
Rape is legal within marriage
To be quite sure - DON'T EXIST!
- A poster by filmmaker K.P. Sasi, titled Rules for girls, circulated on an email discussion, gives a telling take on 'How to keep woman safe'.